what do i do will people judge me on who i sit with what if they ask why im sitting with them?
2006-10-13 10:35:03 · 12 answers · asked by sklincky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well if someone asked to sit with you would you judge them? Probably not. Maybe find people to sit with who you have talked to in class. Just go over and ask if you can join them for lunch.
I moved a lot when I was in school and it was really hard to meet other kids. I was very shy but now I think maybe they thought I was strange because I would always sit alone and not be more friendly.
They will probably say yes but if they don't them they aren't very nice people anyway.
2006-10-13 10:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have confidence and don't worry about that.I don't think anybody would ask that and if they do just say move if you don't want to sit here.Mabe you could get to lunch first and go to an empty table and let people come and sit with you.
2006-10-13 17:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do first is approach the table. Pull the chair out and proceed to sit down. If they start acting mean or judging you, just flip them off and yell at the top of your lungs "Why can't we all just get along?" Hopefully they will be understanding.
Thank you.
2006-10-13 17:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea this is a toughphy cause first you have to leave who your sitting with now and they might be upset, second if u go straight to the cool table you'll be questioned and given weird looks if there nice they'll continue on with their business and not really speak to you, if their mean then they might say go sit some where else i would suggest finding one person from the table your trying to sit out become friends with them and then go to there table that way u have some kind of support to fall back on
2006-10-13 17:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by lilhustler9178 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi try and sit with people that you feel comfortable with then you wont be worried. It may be daunting but try and face it. If people have a problem with you sitting with them then they're not worth knowing. Try not to worry people will be glad of your company. Maybe you should talk to someone as your self eseem sounds quite low.
2006-10-13 17:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ladytohelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) sit with a friend u know
2) just sit down
2006-10-13 17:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~^~ M.Lay ~^~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen in the real world no one cares who you sit with so be yourself and sit with who you want to and have fun
2006-10-13 17:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what others think sit with who you want,don't let other people control you and your life.
2006-10-13 17:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do. i'm assuming that you've already scoped out whom you wish to sit with. so you just go over there, sit down and IMMEDIATELY start talking sh it about you LAST group of friends.
2006-10-13 17:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they wouldn't do tht... at least they wouldn't do tht unless they're retarded, so yeah....sit with another person tht u may know even if u don't talk to them a lot, but at least say wuzzup to each other in the hall or something
2006-10-13 22:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Gwen cha na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋