what is left of the relationship with my boyfriend of two years and i is mediocre (to say the least). right now i just feel done. im tired of being hurt and tired of always being blamed. i am limited to freedom for example i am not allowed to have friends, not allowed to talk to other guys, wear certain things, go out anywhere except if with my family... etc... i mean to me this is a very unhealthy relationship but i am scared to be without you. some of the time i am fine without him, and sometimes especially at night, i am not. we have broken up (last week i dumped him) but we have still acted like we are together. what is a way to tell him that i wnat to be COMPLETELY over and STAY over? i always crawl back to him... thank you
2006-10-13 10:41:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kayla-Ann 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably one of the things that has happened during the two years with this boyfriend, is that you have lost any sense of self-esteem and power.
DO NOT return to a relationship with this boy, you know that it is unhealthy and you should not get involved with him again just because you are bored!
Get yourself something to do, volunteer in your community, take a night-class, spend time with friends, read a book, do something that does not include him, in fact if I were you and had just ended a 2 year relationship, I would wait a while before getting involved with anyone.
Good Luck!
2006-10-13 12:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right this guy is a control freak and more power to you for realizing that to make yourself stay strong set boundaries with him and remind yourself that you deserve to be with a man that is respectful and kind to you and you do not need a guy that likes to control women you need to be with a guy that will let you have your freedom and still love you for it be strong
2006-10-13 17:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all contact , no matter how hard it is you will get thru it , don't allow yourself to go back there
2006-10-13 17:44:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it....He's just playing you for a fool. You are better than that and deserve better!
2006-10-13 17:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Greg M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋