Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

im in love with a guy nearly 5 yrs..now we planned to have sex for the first time.Is it wrong????????????

2006-10-11 03:45:29 · 18 answers · asked by muksar 1 in Singles & Dating

who picked it you or them?

2006-10-11 03:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend's anniversary is coming up next month. it's our 6 month. what can i get him to show him that i want this to last forever. and to show him i love him with all my heart. somethang that he will like. he likes hunting alot is there somethang i can get him from that? please give me some ideas. i want it to be special.

2006-10-11 03:44:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP! it's late wednesday night, and i don't have a gift for my mom! i don't know what to give her, and i'm sorta in a tight budget, what can i give her??

2006-10-11 03:43:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-11 03:42:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We definitely did Not have an exclusive relationship but he never mentioned any other girls. I may have been ok with it if he had just been upfront with me about it. Not trying to drag this on, but this has never happened to me before and feel really hurt that he could do this. Should i confront him about this and let him know how angry and hurt i am or simpy confront and move on regardless of his smoothtalking?

2006-10-11 03:42:50 · 15 answers · asked by Chik B 1 in Singles & Dating

He was my first true love and the father of my son! I just want to see how he is and if he had any other children! Our son is now 24. The last I knew he lived in Carpentersville, IL!

2006-10-11 03:42:05 · 1 answers · asked by Cheryl T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are guys thinking when they break your heart??

2006-10-11 03:41:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he knows that i like him but i'm like dying to know if he likes me!!!!

2006-10-11 03:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have found myself falling more and more out of love with my husband over the years. We have been married nearly 8 years, and have 2 children, one of which is autistic, which has put a strain on things, as well as the fact that I was diagnosed with a kidney disease a few years ago.

We always have plenty to talk about, and we argue from time to time, but lately the discussions have been more serious - like the future of our marriage. He has started a new job, and I am about to start one too. There is a fair bit of stress in the house from all this, and we haven't had sex for months. I haven't wanted to, and neither has he. We are rarely intimate any more. We don't hug or kiss any more. He went away on business for a week and I didn't even miss him. In fact, I felt better once he wasn't around. I don't know if it is just a symptom of all the stress of the last few years, and whether something is salvagable. I don't want to split up, but it's hardly a happy marriage.

2006-10-11 03:41:04 · 18 answers · asked by helly 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 03:39:59 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so this dude is a friend of mine and we're pretty close... he used to give me signs that he liked me too and we've flirted quite a bit in the past but then another girl came into the picture and yep she's a close friend of mine. he's totally into her and same goes with her but she's already got a bf. we hang out a lot, the three of us.. and it just hurts like a ***** when i see the both of them canoodling. what do i do? throw myself off the balcony? start a business selling pickled anchovies? opinions please.. thank you.
im all out of love, im so lost without you dum da da dee..doo doo da bam ba..

2006-10-11 03:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by bloody_rose7 1 in Friends

My X and I had been together for 6 weeks shy of 3 years. We have had rough times but had great times too. We purchased a home about 1.5 years ago. His son moved in with us, he started a business this fall, and everything went down hill fast! He said I was horrible to him and the kids and he hated our home...I was blown away, I I know I was 'selfish' often and did what I wanted, but never in a milllion years would I have guessed that he would just leave and give up on everything. I confronted him two days ago and he said he had a new woman already. Im now even more broken than I was before - I didnt think that was possible. Im not enjoying life - not anything that I used do. I have to go home to 'our' home alone and my life is empty without him and his kids. I took them for granted - I know this - but HOW to fix it? Impossible, I know...but I just feel like I have to have him back, them back. Is there any way to show him that this new woman isnt that great and that we truly were? HELP!

2006-10-11 03:38:50 · 3 answers · asked by Broken 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this man who went out of his way to treat me like a lady once I asked him had he been seeing some one else he pretty much turned it all around and we went south?

2006-10-11 03:38:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone who hurts verbally?

2006-10-11 03:38:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was courting this girl
i asked her:"DO YOU LOVE ME?"
she said:"I DONT KNOW WAT TO SAY BUT I DONT WANT YOU TO GO AWAY"

what does it probably mean?

2006-10-11 03:37:35 · 10 answers · asked by jlbkb8 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 03:36:54 · 12 answers · asked by deadman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He contacts me every 5 days. I do wonder whether something is going on that he doesn't want me to know about. Seems like his life is a secret yet, I've shown my life not in this aspect.

2006-10-11 03:36:20 · 17 answers · asked by Rufus 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am servicing 2000 km away from home.
and going to meet my wife after 3 months.
please suggest me a beautiful gift for her

2006-10-11 03:36:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been on and off with this boy for 8 months. AND I LOVE HIM!! he was the first boy i had ever made out with. right now we are broken up and i dont think it is really over. and i dont know if he wants it to be over. i am spending the night at his neighbors house thursday night and i will see him then. she has already talked to him about all of us hanging out and he said he thought that was a good idea. what should i do to impress him?you know, show him what hes missing. like i need beauty tips i guess. girls-makeup and hair tips etc. and guys-what drives guys crazy(even the smallest things are appreciated) thank you so so so much in advance.

2006-10-11 03:35:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known this girl Rachel for like 10 years, my parents know each other. For the past couple of years I really havent seen her that much. Im going out with her in a couple weeks to spend some time with her, how do I put it to her that I consider her as more than a friend, now that we are older I want to have a relationship with her. Is it possible to have a relationship with her even though I am alittle over than an hour away? Thanx

2006-10-11 03:35:07 · 2 answers · asked by Cram Z 1 in Singles & Dating

i have 36 b cup breast size and i am 5''0 height.
but i am not contented of my breast size and planing to 36 d or 36 dd cup and this is my first time if will happen to go in surgery, but im a little bit scared of surgery.
what should i do??

2006-10-11 03:34:23 · 22 answers · asked by confusegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I started dating this guy about 2 months ago. It started out really hot and heavy emotionally...we opened up to one another almost immediately. He would send me the sweetest text messages 4 to 5 times a day, look at me with complete and total "love" in his eyes when we were together....etc. etc....but then it cooled off really quickly, and when I questioned it he became really defensive and said that he wasn't going to put up with me making him feel as if he did something wrong when he didn't. I can see his point, I guess...but he refuses to see mine. So ever since I brought the whole thing up, he's drifted further and further away....he runs hot and cold. Things will seem fine, and then he won't call which makes me feel like s..t! I know I deserve to be treated better than this, but he used to treat me so well and I guess I'm just clinging on to the hope that it will be that way again. But the logical side of my brain is telling me to just let him go. HELP!!!!

2006-10-11 03:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by magnolia3246 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my office and feel lazy today, someone to chat on msn or yahooo with?

2006-10-11 03:33:56 · 14 answers · asked by GATTI S 2 in Singles & Dating

I love and respect woman and always put them first sexually and non-sexually,.
Is that what woman like in a man?

2006-10-11 03:33:13 · 32 answers · asked by fletch4144 1 in Singles & Dating

Does someone have her number or email so that i can get in contact with her. She's almost 30

2006-10-11 03:32:50 · 1 answers · asked by Kronen 1 in Friends

He is the person very strick forward simple thinking everyone are very hasitate with him. His working and i am not because I have a 2 kid 7 and 5 years old. personally in my eyes he is the person who doent like to be touch and answer or qustioning his comment.
Since we live in China he is dealing with uneducatated people and employee he like to blame with quite way or give a comment-let someone to do on their on way BUT if that a mistake he will blast because thats not they Way He likes.
iIf we were talking about the money he know exacly that Im not working...and he will drive an answer goes to ....earning your own money! or .u can not do anyting without my financial. In my eyes he alway put other human being smaller than him.

Thank you so much for your help...

2006-10-11 03:32:12 · 8 answers · asked by Dewi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-11 03:31:50 · 1 answers · asked by R-Lin 1 in Singles & Dating

The woman I've been dating for the past couple months decided she needed to share some things about her past with me. The only major thing was that she cheated on her husband when they were married. Now I'm not sure if she is someone that I can trust or even still want to be with because my wife cheated on me when we were married. I really like her, am I wrong to feel this way? Is this something I should get past or will she do it again.

2006-10-11 03:31:35 · 5 answers · asked by brad 1 in Singles & Dating

You can love each other but can still be intimacy deficient or have an intimacy disorder. So don’t use love to cover what true intimacy is. Dig deep in your answers please. What defines having a relationship where both are very intimate with each other.

2006-10-11 03:31:34 · 7 answers · asked by [B] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships