okay so this dude is a friend of mine and we're pretty close... he used to give me signs that he liked me too and we've flirted quite a bit in the past but then another girl came into the picture and yep she's a close friend of mine. he's totally into her and same goes with her but she's already got a bf. we hang out a lot, the three of us.. and it just hurts like a ***** when i see the both of them canoodling. what do i do? throw myself off the balcony? start a business selling pickled anchovies? opinions please.. thank you.
im all out of love, im so lost without you dum da da dee..doo doo da bam ba..
2006-10-11 03:39:11 · 7 answers · asked by bloody_rose7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How could your friend like another guy if she already has a boyfriend? That doesn't make any sense at all. Since the guy already likes your friend, there's nothing you can do to change his mind. It has to be hard seeing the two of them together, but keep in mind that what goes around, comes around and eventually your friend will get caught by her boyfriend. In the meantime, continue to meet new people and mingle. There are plenty of fish in the sea and he will not be the only guy that you like. I hope my advice will help heal your wounds. Best of luck.
2006-10-11 03:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey luk....once u said tht u had flirted wid each other n other side u said tht the guy is now after tht gal....wht i think is tht he wasnt ne serius in u frm bfore only...otherwise he wud not run after tht gal ....
luk i think if u n ur frend r pretty close ( guy) then i think u shud talk to him personally asking tht if he really likes tht gal even noeing she has a bf...... will he start a relation wid her or not?
If he says yes thn i think u shud b out of d balcony..u dont have ne space thr.....but if he says tht i dont noe or elz he directly says no thn i think u shud try ur luck....if u like tht guy just b attractive towards him.... get more n more best frendz sort of.... due to which a feeling of attraction wil definately *** in ur frend...!
2006-10-11 11:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the girl is a bad friend to flirt with that guy knowing u like him....u must feel reallly bad...try get close to the guy....try make him fall for u ;)...y does she need 2 guys??....talk to her and tell her to go hang out with her bf and leave u and 'this dude'....if she's a friend she should understand..
2006-10-11 11:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont love the boy ok?just find 1 more
2006-10-11 10:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by cutiegirlask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry... but i think your outta luck. you'll just have to wait and see who he chooses. oh, and your friends a jerk (no offence) if she knows you like him, and would even dare try to take him. especially when she already has a man.
2006-10-11 10:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hang out with them when they are together.
2006-10-11 10:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by Allinwiththenuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should start inviting her boyfriend along ;o)
2006-10-11 10:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋