We definitely did Not have an exclusive relationship but he never mentioned any other girls. I may have been ok with it if he had just been upfront with me about it. Not trying to drag this on, but this has never happened to me before and feel really hurt that he could do this. Should i confront him about this and let him know how angry and hurt i am or simpy confront and move on regardless of his smoothtalking?
2006-10-11 03:42:50 · 15 answers · asked by Chik B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him fast and be glad that you found out now and not years down the road. To him, you're just the girl on the side. You deserve so much better than that. Even if he says he'll dump the other girl and tries to sweet talk you into going steady with him... forget it. If he did it to her, he's likely to do it to you as well. What a loser, dump him and move on to better things!!!
2006-10-11 03:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you do know about his girlfriend. You said it was casual, but is it really? You need to look at the situation. Are you just friends or is there something more? If he comes back with a just friends answer then that is what it is and you should move on to find someone new. But, don't let go of a good friendship. If the relationship was not that serious then it really should not hurt that bad. Anger is the real issue. When you speak to him don't let him know you are angry. Shame him with understanding and acceptance. Men never really understand what they are doing when you give them understanding and acceptance. Try to figure out why he would do this to his serious girlfriend and see if he understands that not only is he hurting you but he is hurting her. If he feels bad then he is a good guy that is confused, but if he just goes on without showing that he cares how either of you feel he is just a player and likes to have his girlfriend and the side dish for fun. DON'T MESS WITH THE PLAYERS!!!!!
2006-10-11 03:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should confront and let him know how u feel but if it is that big of a problem to u then move on because ti will only create doubt in ur mind about whats really going on later down the line
2006-10-11 03:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only been two months. Its ok to be mad but dont let this consume you, take this as a blessing, you can now move on early on where no deep emotions are attached.
Tell him to kiss you @ss and go with your life.
And before you do that make sure that his myspace page is updated! You might be jumping into conclusions.
Good luck!
2006-10-11 03:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 01:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you found out about his serious girlfriend, and break up with him. Don't return his calls or messages. Understandably you're hurt, but remember that to him, you were that girl on the side. You deserve better, and will be able to find better easily.
2006-10-11 03:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked out this guy who said he was single and I invited him to the Rock caffe down her in Toronto. So 4 days go by after he was supposed to be there and then on my birthday I get a phone call from his 7 month pregnant girlfriend. I was shocked at her message, it was very inappropriate on her part.
Leave it at that and go find yourself a nice guy darlin.
cheers
2006-10-11 03:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, confront him and definitely move on. If he's doing this to her, if you two ever hooked up, he would do it to you. He may be hooking up with other chics for all you know. I think the worst thing is that he lied about it all. If he lied once, he'll lie again.
2006-10-11 03:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it. Tell him how hurt you are over the situation. Then it's time to move on if it is true. If this guy can lie to you he's not worth your time.
2006-10-11 03:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by foundiniraq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost-regardless of what he says, he is a liar-if not to you, then he is lying to his serious girlfriend. Do not excuse his behavior for any reason--if he hates his gf, he can split with her and find someone new--cheating shows a poor character.
2006-10-11 03:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋