He contacts me every 5 days. I do wonder whether something is going on that he doesn't want me to know about. Seems like his life is a secret yet, I've shown my life not in this aspect.
2006-10-11 03:36:20 · 17 answers · asked by Rufus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would say yes it is unfair. I would go on to say he is trying to hide something from you like he is married or dating someone seriously and is cheating on them.
Run now because you don't need this type of relationship.
2006-10-11 03:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by blueraider93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not right that he can contact you but you can't contact him, If you think about it is it really a relationship? I don't think so, get on with your life and find someone else because he is not worth it and I may not know you but you can do BETTER then that. I have been there and done that with a guy and it was a waste of time.
2006-10-11 10:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by whats up all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run the other way. He is Married. How do I know?
Do the math. Contacts you every 5 days, Does not share his life with you. Hm mm.
2006-10-11 10:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Myriam C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very wary on this one. It does sound like he has something to hide, so be careful. Having said that, maybe he is just a bit cautious when getting into a relationship. Try not to judge, but I would definitely get an explanation.
I hoep it works out
2006-10-11 10:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by Wee Eck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't feel fair, but I also don't really understand what you're saying. When you say "contact" do you mean by phone, email, what? And what is his reasoning for you not being able to contact him? Ask him why not. Doesn't make any sense at all.
2006-10-11 10:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is definitely going on. I would strongly suspect that he's involved with someone else. The fact that he won't let you contact him at any time is a huge red flag and smells like deception. You've got to confront him on this one.
2006-10-11 10:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by californiarad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married. There is no reason why you should not be able to contact someone with whom you are involved. Has he introduced you to his friends or family? Have you been places with him near where he lives? Do you even know where he lives, and have you been to his house? It's best to cut your losses and start over with someone else. The truth is, even if he isn't married, why would you want someone who you can't even reach if you wanted to?
2006-10-11 10:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair,maybe he has a life with some one else,that can be the only explanation.If so you should not waist your time living a lie.
2006-10-11 10:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the fool!! I really doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that something else is going on, and you probably don't want to be a part of it.
2006-10-11 11:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by mesierens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really isn't fair....I would be very upset with your partner. He is giving you, and me, the impression he is doing something secretive. Obviously, you need to say something to him about it!
2006-10-11 10:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋