Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

Ok I am African I am not suppose to date a guy out of my country, but I met this guy I work with, he is very nice to me, he is African American he is in love with me everyone at work know that he is in love with me, and he talks about getting married and having kids together, however my parents don’t like him at all, first of all he is not form the same country, he is not in school he doesn’t even have his GED, he is younger than me by one year, he is form dysfunction family, my parents have a lot of expectation. I like/love him so much I dated him for about a year with out my parents knowing, he doesn’t know that they don’t like him. He met my mother once and I told her he is my friend, but he is also my first love he is the first guy that I had sex with, I didn’t tell him that but he thinks that I wasn’t a virgin before I met him. About 2weeks ago I went to Africa and I met this other guy he lives in the USA but he was visiting, he really like me I start talking to him every night, my bf don’t know that, but my parents really like him, I like him because he is educated and he is much older then me, and he is also African but I don’t love him. The thing is he is coming to the state I am for Christmas my father invited him, I am so scared because my bf also have plans for our first Christmas together, but know this other guy is coming, I love my bf and I wish he had all that I don’t know what I am doing I need help what should I do confuse so much???

2006-10-11 04:32:44 · 11 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

she said she wanted me to try her, hair taco?? Should I bring some tabasco and hot sauce or is it her job to provide all the condiments??

2006-10-11 04:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 04:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by SWM 1 in Singles & Dating

Well just got out of a long relationshipe trying to pull myself thur and move it was a 5year relationship and am normally at work doing almost nothing at least for thhe next few week so i would love to chat

2006-10-11 04:30:54 · 18 answers · asked by shiva 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 04:30:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He understood my feelings and he left me.But now ,I am very possessive on him. Thats why i am not able to accept hi to move closely with other girls.But i don't want to hurt my parents.I don't know what to do.

2006-10-11 04:29:28 · 8 answers · asked by k_jothi20 1 in Friends

A guy that I love and I think likes me would usually send me these wierd IM messages to let me know he cares..for example if I tell him I will go back to my old BF I would get a message. now I tell him I am leaving for Italy and he doesn't send me any messages..but he still wait for my messages on his cell phone. Why won't he send me anymore IM messages to let me know he cares I am leaving?

2006-10-11 04:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like (really like) a lad that i know but don't see too often as i only see him when he comes to see my sisters boyfriend (his mate). hes tall with blonde hair and dark eyes but is one year younger than me! he like me aswell as he told my sisters boyfriend and my sister that he really likes me and thinks im sexy. what shall i do i've waited and waited for him to ask me out but he hasn't and i darn't and never find the right moment! i'd love to know your veiws of what i should do!!!!!!!!

2006-10-11 04:28:03 · 8 answers · asked by mozart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What proportion of divorced couples maintain a relationship that is amicable after divorce? Is it possible to do so? Should you try to do so? What has been your experience or observations of divorced people?

2006-10-11 04:27:42 · 32 answers · asked by Jo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having a hard time seeing them lately.

Touching: a caress of the hand
Compassion: listening to your problems or just listening intently to your words
Romance: candles, poem, a little something special
Tenderness: to be there when your sick and watch over you

So if I don't see any of these am I still loved?

2006-10-11 04:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never had that happen to me, but i just would like someone to tell me how it felt to them.

2006-10-11 04:27:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sex of course. I've noticed that any guy I can think of has showed interest in having sex w/17-18 y/os.

2006-10-11 04:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

can you get fired fo grabbing a customer's chest at work??? the other day this lady came in and she kept askin me where stuff was in the store...and it was real obvious...so i thought she be flirting. so i just went with it. and she threw a fit and now i am fired. how you women get away with that????

2006-10-11 04:26:46 · 41 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1 in Singles & Dating

This is really problematic! Most of the time guys thought that I'm attached to someone, but I'm actually still single. The misunderstanding caused no guys dare to approach me. So how? How could guys assume I'm attached without asking me? I can't write on my face that I'm still single, right? So what can I do?

2006-10-11 04:26:43 · 11 answers · asked by The Wondering Why 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy says you dress really sexy? Is he giving me a compliment or is he trying to tell me how to dress?. My friend said this to me this out of the blue the other day. I don't know why but I was a little offended. Should I be? Now if he had said you look really sexy or you ARE really sexy then I would not be asking this question but since he targetted my attire I'm left wondering. I'm very comfortable in my body so I don't have any problems with my wardrobe. Why should he care when he isn't even my man.

2006-10-11 04:25:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this happen over ther weekend... my best friend saw her boy friend with my other best friend.. and my best friend the one that was with the guy acted like it was nothing n just keeped on with him because he said he dint have a girl friend n stuff so i dont know wat to do... they are both puttin me in the middle of them and i need help because there both my best friends n i love them both but i dont know wat to...!

2006-10-11 04:25:51 · 7 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Friends

do you think it's for him to call me sometime in the future or what?

2006-10-11 04:25:37 · 55 answers · asked by Alexis M 1 in Singles & Dating

I just gave a guy my number and told him to call me if he wants to do anything together and he called and wants to go out this weekend... I need some helpful tips on how to go about the date without feeling like I don't know what to say and he is really attractive and funny, sweet and smart.. I have already told him that I am in the Army and he doesn't have a problem with that... but please help with some tips on how to keep him interested..

2006-10-11 04:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by kalynn h 2 in Singles & Dating

my Q's are fun and light hearted but they keep getting deleted! the prudes must be out in their hoardes tody or something! i see a lot of 'offensive' Q's about @nal, on here and it offends me, but i simply bypass them! why can't other people do the same?

seriously, you have Q's on here about @ss f*ckin and beastality but when i ask what makes you horny it's removed????

WTF???

2006-10-11 04:25:12 · 20 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant and it was like this last time I was pregnant. I am just really clingy and needy and it even gets on my nerves! I am so not like that at all. I am the most un-clingy wife ever. But I cannot help it. I need some ideas on how to give him his own space. How do I just leave him alone and stop bothering him. He has not really said anything about it and he knows that it is just because I am pregnant. I just don't want to overcrowd him. I call him all the time and I think I am bugging him. What do I do? And how do I leave him alone. Is there anything I can do to try to make up for being to clingy? Thanks!

2006-10-11 04:24:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it just me, or have you noticed that in so many cases, one's name kinda fits thier appearance. For instance, I knew a kid whose name was Dougie Cludzinski. He was NOT the capt. of the football team. That, of course was Brad Stone. Or how about Vance Du Ravasche? He wore a dickie, was gay, too. How the hell could his parents have known? Ever hear of a guy living in the South Bronx Projects named Lawrence Van Crippensburgh III? Joe Hammerfist--Drama Club? Chess Team? I don't think so. Ruth Scnithselbecker, Homecoming Queen? negative. Question is: are we all destined to become what our names foreshadow?

2006-10-11 04:24:03 · 6 answers · asked by Raptor 3 in Singles & Dating

Or third or fourth?

2006-10-11 04:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Qwertius 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you found yourself stranded or caught in an EXTREME emergency situation where lots of physical labor and quick-thinking are required, and there was only ONE person along with you to get out of this situation alive (Keep in mind it would call for lots of teamwork, quick-thinking decisions, common sense, initiative.) who would you want the person with you to be? Why?

-Would it be your significant other? Why or why not?
-Would you be the leader or follower taking directions in this situation? Or would you both equally step up?

2006-10-11 04:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girls in school don't like me because they like my boyfriend.He's like rich and 17 and really hot.what do i do?

2006-10-11 04:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say it's a lazy day and you guys are just chillin'... Hanging out at home. How many times would you have sex? Is it enough? Too much? not enough? Let me know if you are female or male please... Thanks!

2006-10-11 04:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by itsme! 2 in Singles & Dating

And I am not racist but how come it seems like men of color dont have such a high standard? Caucasion men always seem to want 'perfection.'

2006-10-11 04:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by New Mommie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 04:22:56 · 15 answers · asked by karmila o 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A woman goes into a hardware store and asks the clerk for two AA batteries. The clerk gestures with his fingers and says, "Come this way," and heads towards the back of the store.

"If I could come that way," she tells the retreating clerk, "I wouldn't need the batteries."

2006-10-11 04:22:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a woman was in a bad marriage and cheated on her husband before they got divorced, can she be trusted, or is she likely to do it again.

2006-10-11 04:22:19 · 16 answers · asked by brad 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a new grandbaby and want to send the mother flowers but we are on a very tight budget. We have searched sites but can't afford the prices.

2006-10-11 04:22:07 · 5 answers · asked by keri d 1 in Family