I am pregnant and it was like this last time I was pregnant. I am just really clingy and needy and it even gets on my nerves! I am so not like that at all. I am the most un-clingy wife ever. But I cannot help it. I need some ideas on how to give him his own space. How do I just leave him alone and stop bothering him. He has not really said anything about it and he knows that it is just because I am pregnant. I just don't want to overcrowd him. I call him all the time and I think I am bugging him. What do I do? And how do I leave him alone. Is there anything I can do to try to make up for being to clingy? Thanks!
2006-10-11 04:24:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First talk to him and see how he feels about it.It might not even bother him and you are making it an issue.Being that you are aware of it, all you have to do is stop doing it.If you didn't realize it and you were told, you would probabally deny it.You are more then half way, you recognized it now just step back and enjoy your pregnancy with your husband..The key thing as with anything in a relationship is communication..Give it a shot and talk to him,You never know...it just might help...Good luck and Best Wishes on the baby...Smiles
2006-10-11 04:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Frank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a teenager, but I'm asexual so I have really no experience or desire at keeping a girl or guy. I believe that you have already answered your question. This woman seems to be very lonely, and this loneliness is what brings about a great clinginess, or desperation for lack of better terms, to find someone to love and be a companion of. The fact that she is striving for someone who cheats shows great insecurity and suffering self-esteem. There are tons of guys out there who would be much better for her, and probably feeling lonely too (all of the "nice guys"), yet she continues to strive for heartache and pain. Bottom line- she needs to get over this guy and move on to much greater things. Just as important though, she has to become fully comfortable with herself!
2016-03-28 04:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its pretty common for a woman to either be clingy or isolate during pregnancy. the hormones are raging and your body is changing...even if its not the first one. i think you might have a lot of time on your hands. have you though about getting involved with some kind of committee, group or even volunteering your time to something you enjoy doing?? perhaps an idle mind is also a reason you want to call and check on your husband.
i used to do that with my first pregnancy. i'd be buggin....i felt like...you better be thinking of me 24/7 while i'm carrying this child. but if youre taking it to the extreme, you can wear yourself and your partner out. relieve some of the stress and clinginess by having a routine and planning each day in what to do. perhaps you'll find yourself to busy to obsess about your husband. enjoy this time with yourself, cuz soon enough you wont have any time for yourself. go take a yoga class to ease your mind. i hope this helps.
2006-10-11 07:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by life beyond yur wildest dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being clingy to your hubby whilst carry his child. Women have different types of cravings during pregnancy, e.g. ice cream, pickles, chalk, fried chicken etc. Once your hubby does not show disgust, you should not be bothered. Do not make a mountain out of a molehill. Be thankful that he is there for you, appreciate that.
Love and have a safe delivery.
2006-10-11 06:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by mrlynphilip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is normal for you to be clingy during your past pregnant then you bound back after birth then your husband must understand that. Be open with him and see if he can suggest anything that would help.
2006-10-11 04:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was the same when she was preggers. I have to admit it did rub me the wrong way sometimes but I understood her and figured it must be a hormonal/mothering/instinctual thing that happens to all women. Things went back to normal after Federico came along.
2006-10-11 04:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok dear, let me tell you from someone who has been there. I too am not usually that way, but for me it was a maternal thing. instinct to want to with him. Do yourself a favor, try to back off, but not too much because then you might start to resent him. I know it might sound stupid, but your hormones are SO out of wacko right now. A boys night out might help, but too many of the and you might resent him for not being there. Also do yourself a favor and try to explain yourself to him so he doesn't weird out too.
2006-10-11 04:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for 1 you are pregnant and u have mood swings. That is understandable. Just try not to call so often it will be ok. And just be your regular self.
2006-10-11 04:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u hav esome bad cases girl , first put some u time out and them maybe ask some friends to hang out and Play The Sims or Runescape , GTA or something them meat pounding in u all the time and buy him some beer
2006-10-11 04:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're pregnant. Those hormones are racing through your body. That's the only reason you are so emotional (clingy)
2006-10-11 04:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by The Hispanic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋