I've been having a hard time seeing them lately.
Touching: a caress of the hand
Compassion: listening to your problems or just listening intently to your words
Romance: candles, poem, a little something special
Tenderness: to be there when your sick and watch over you
So if I don't see any of these am I still loved?
2006-10-11 04:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF YOU FEEL NEGLECTED, ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT.
2006-10-11 04:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be expressed in many ways but it seems to me that you are not feeling that your needs are being met. I think that when you love someone, you want to fulfill their needs as best as you can as well as having your own needs met. Needs vary from person to person; for example, some people, when they are ill would rather have privacy and space then have someone hover over them. While you may be waiting for a poem or candle as an expression of love, your partner may be thinking that the cup of coffee they brought you in the morning or the fact they ran your tub for you was a romantic gesture. I think that one of the important things is to communicate your feelings and to listen to your partner's feelings too. Love is a work in progress and must be maintained and nurtured.
2006-10-11 04:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course I am NO EXPERT mind you, I spent 13 years happily married, then 10 Mo's ago on X-mas Day My husb. told me his mother would never again allow our happiness & went to live w/mommy.STILL WONT EVEN SPEAK TO ME TODAY OR SEE THE KIDS!! BUT, We did love one another very much and turns out he must still have very deep feelings or he wouldnt aoid us..... SO...Signs in my opinion are, showing of feelings in any form (even avoidance in some rare circumstances as you just saw in my example) But usually feelings of happines, concern(TRU CONCERN) for your well being, compliments that dont seem cheesie or out there, compassion for your blue's or pain, a willingness to be there for you over his/her own desires at the time of need... I hope dearly I could help you feel more secure about what to look for!
2006-10-11 04:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by animeonie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People show their love in many different ways. Buying you your favourite chocolate bar may be their way of showing you. Some people are not as comfortable as expressing their love in the way we want, but if you see the simple things they do for you, then maybe you will see their love. If in doubt, talk to the person and tell them your feelings. Most likely they will tell you exactly what you want to hear. You don't always have to hear it, or show it, but you always have to feel it.
2006-10-11 04:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by mkathy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would try talking to the person or evaluating what you really want from someone. I would make a list of what you want in any relationship, and then settle for nothing less than that :)
2006-10-11 04:30:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no "signs" of love. Its just something you feel and you will know when you feel it. TRUST ME!! It feels like nothing else matters but the person you are with.
2006-10-11 04:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everybody loves in their own way... so dont expect the ordinary, what you see on t.v. is not always the rule ,,real life is tought but there are another sings if she take care of you or the way she look at you.....â§
2006-10-11 04:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by haki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to see love to have it
its mostly a feeling above anything else
2006-10-11 04:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Laura G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋