Are there really men out there who dont mind ladies with a lil' extra weight?

Question

And I am not racist but how come it seems like men of color dont have such a high standard? Caucasion men always seem to want 'perfection.'

Answer 1

I would agreed to that but now anymore, as I'm alittle bulky myself and my skinny 6 pec british bf loves me.
Its just the mentality and what their approach to love is.

P/s: No one is perfect.

Answer 2

The more insecure someone is, the more they need things to be perfect, because that is what they think they need to be happy. You could almost say they are high maitenance.

A truly secure person is more attracted to who someone is and doesn't need a girl that is coveted by others to be happy. They don't need to impress anyone.

I think it is fair to say that most white men are insecure. It is common thought that at one time they believed they were above everyone else, even women. And when you think you are on top, it is a fight to stay there and it seems like everyone is taking things from you. Your security is challenged. As society has progressed, our country is becoming more diverse and minorities can easily do and obtain things that was only common for the white male, like jobs, money, respect.


Although, people of all race and backgrounds can be insecure depending on their childhood or life experiences. The thing is, we are all caught up in finding someone that we think is attractive and most of us have little requirements for what attractive is. Is it much different to date someone that is skinny and not bigger, or is it just as shallow to date someone that is taller and not short or blonde instead of brunette or redhead?

Answer 3

yes. Real men don't focus on how much a woman weighs but who she is and how real she is. Nobody is perfect and there are men out there both of color and caucasion that are just not being realistic when it comes to chosing a partner.

Answer 4

You really can't say that. It's not about race at all. Men of all colors have standards. I know some black men that will date only petite girls with big asses. But really, big girls fit into the equation somewhere. And all men want a perfect woman, but the definition of what man believes is perfection varies. Like you can't go to South America and tell them that a white woman with blond hair and blue eyes is beautiful. Or if you tell that to an Eskimo. They all have their own idea of beauty and who they are attracted to, it's cultural, so you can't say that men of color have low standards because not everybody likes the same thing. Because it sounds like you're trying to say that Black women are out of shape and fat, or whatever race you are talking about. But if I can recall I have seen white men with some overweight white women too. Your logic is off on this one honey, but yes there are men who like women of all shapes, sizes, and COLOR.

Answer 5

You are right, ugly fat men and the cloureds will use fat people but normal White decent folk will have nothing to do with the tubs of lard. It is a fallacy that Big Beautiful Women exist the word Big should be removed. Most slim girls always take a tub of fat pig out with them to make them look good and it means they get the pick . But you can kid yourself if you want and I am sure a lot of the religious repressed saddo's who fit into my first catagory will post BBW are sexy xx "Do you sweat loads when you dance?"

Answer 6

I'm caucasion, and a litle extra weight doesn't bug me at all.

Answer 7

I'm white and i think if a girl doesn't have a little meat on their bones i tend to not find them attractive at all....... any more questions hit me back @ [e-mail]

Answer 8

I am white and I love girls with a little extra weight.

Answer 9

There's nothing worst than a boney booty... You need a little extra to actually have a shape...

Answer 10

because we like some cushion for the pushin