2006-10-11 04:31:06 · 16 answers · asked by SWM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have and in the process of meeting up with him!
2006-10-11 04:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and to be honest i would really want to trust the person first. If you are going to meet with someone no matter how nice they seem you will have to take some measures, i dont mean like a SWAT team or anything but why not bring a friend along and meet in a very public area - your safety at the end of the day is the most important thing.
2006-10-11 11:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by tumps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On Yahoo! Answers - No.
On Yahoo! - YES!
Are you thinking of meeting someone? If so, remember to play it safe. There are a lot of weirdos out there. I have met several people (probably about a dozen or a little more) and here is what experience has told me :
If something seems off or if someone is pressuring you to meet them more quickly than you are comfortable with, take it as a red flag and get rid of them! I have let two guys talk me into meeting them before I was ready and both of them turned out to be creapy and even more pushy in real life. Luckily, I met them in public places so I was able to get away.
If they seem too good to be true and you really want to meet them, go for it. Just remember that if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Try to avoid getting too attatched too quickly and watch for warning signs that this person may not be all they claim to be.
If they seem like a good person that you are totally comfortable with, I would definately say to go for it! They may be your next best friend or even more.
I am sure you hear all the time about how to play it safe. But it's important so I will go over a few things with you again:
First of all, remember that even if you feel like you have known this person for a long time, they are still practically a stranger. It's easy to put on a good guy act over the internet and sometimes even over the phone. Many people can even put on a good act the first few times they meet you in person. So at least for a while, make sure that you always meet and stay in safe public places. Personally, I suggest a place where you can be alone to get to know each other but are still close enough to get help if you need it. I like meeting people at the park or highschool football games. I stay where other people can easily see me and can hear if I scream, but far enough away that I can focus on the person I am getting to know.
Talk to the person on the phone before meeting in person if possible, and when you meet bring a cell phone with you. Sometimes the tone of someone's voice can help you figure out that they aren't someone you want to know. And if something comes up (such as they have car problems or get stuck in traffic) it will be good if they can give you a call. And cell phones are good for calling for help. If you can't afford a regular monthly cell phone, see if you can get a tracfone. They are more expensive to use per minute, but they are totally worth the price if you have one for emergency purposes. ... Oh yeah, and make sure your phone is charged!
Also, if you do talk to them on the phone, try to avoid giving them a number that they can trace back to your home. Block caller ID even if they say that they don't have one (I believe you have to dial *67 before every call to block their caller ID) I have caught several guys in lies when they say they don't have caller ID, but I got a message that they don't accept annonymous calls when I dial *67.
And don't bring someone home or ride with them the first time you meet them. I have ridden with a guy before the first time I met him, but this was because it started raining where we met, I didn't have a car, I didn't want to walk all the way home in the cold winter rain, and I just got this amazing "this is a good guy" feeling when I met him. I would not suggest this to other people, but I will admit that I did it. And I didn't get a ride all the way home. I had him drop me off a few blocks from where I live and waited until he drove off before I walked home.
Hope this long answer helps!
2006-10-11 11:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll meet up with any of you however you must fit the below criteria:
Over 18
Female
Be very Hot
Not be a complete physco
Just email me if you can fit any two of the above.
2006-10-11 11:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH, sure! I just jumped into my Private plane and flew three states away to meet a stranger! get real, no one from the same town as another answers poster would admit or even meet, it would have happened to me by now if it did
2006-10-11 11:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no-but some have met Jesus and repented from sins and been born again-peace up in his amazing grace John 3rd chapter tells the story of inner peace and salvation
2006-10-11 11:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not yet any way it will never happen I'm to old. but not to worry i have the wife and children to talk to
2006-10-11 13:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what site
2006-10-11 11:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Latin Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes SEVERAL and ALL but one were up for it and fun people.
2006-10-11 11:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id be too scared.
2006-10-11 11:34:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋