well this happen over ther weekend... my best friend saw her boy friend with my other best friend.. and my best friend the one that was with the guy acted like it was nothing n just keeped on with him because he said he dint have a girl friend n stuff so i dont know wat to do... they are both puttin me in the middle of them and i need help because there both my best friends n i love them both but i dont know wat to...!
2006-10-11 04:25:51 · 7 answers · asked by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I agree that you should stay neutral, but at the same time you should state how you feel to each girl on both sides. To the girl that was with the guy (not the gf), you know she was in the wrong. If the tables were turned, she would be pissed that the other girl was walking around with her bf without her being there. That isn't a good friend anyway. She needs to be taught some respect.
2006-10-11 05:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better idea rather than to stay neutral is try to sort things between the two and in a really cool way(no fists allowed) and the only way is let them talk to each other, that is u hav to bring them somehow and don't ask me how but do that and their talking should be such that u ain't no judge, they will start initially by shouting against u, but u hav to calm both of them and then make those two talk and have their points of clearly known to one another and to you too. And by this u maintained ur friendship with those too and u sorted out a fight which is cool and they will b a lot closer to u in future and i had gone through like this and did the same which really helped them out and me too.
2006-10-12 00:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Enrique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are both your best friends; they both would not put you in the middle of this situation.
2006-10-11 15:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by beautiful_yet_spoiled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay neutral, and if it comes down to it... support both of your friends and not the guy. He sounds like a bit of a jerk to me.
2006-10-11 11:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay neutral if they make you decide ditch them both because it is unfair if you have to choose
2006-10-11 11:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by zammivox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? What are your trying to say? If your life depending upon explaining this situation you'd be facing a firing squad about now.
2006-10-11 11:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay nuteral
2006-10-11 11:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by Latin Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋