Family & Relationships - 11 October 2006

I have a few questions

1) I loved this girl so much. Did everything for her. Eventually, I found out she faked her love for me and only wanted my money. It hurts so much to know that the girl you loved so much does not love you.

Recently when she found out I dont have much money to spend on her, she completely stopped answering my calls. No goodbye-no friends only speech-no explanation.

I did nothing wrong as far as I know. She knows I love her so much and did not give her any reason to get so mad at me.
Why do you think she would do this?

I want to move on quickly. Are there any good tips in doing so?

2006-10-11 22:54:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am always looking for some extra insight. I posted a few days ago about my wife asking me to leave. Not having sex in 6 months and financial issues have created a rift between the 2 of us. We have communicated by E-Mail, just our thoughts and feelings. We can't get together before Sunday, maybe even Monday. I'm afraid I might lose her. Does anybody have a thought as to what it is I should do? Again, always looking for other people's insight.

2006-10-11 22:52:45 · 13 answers · asked by Norm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when a lad likes a girl who he knows likes him back, why do ye go all shy or give us silent treatment or say stuff like ye dont want to lead us on but want to wait to see what happens over time!

2006-10-11 22:50:37 · 7 answers · asked by bornmadchick 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 22:50:36 · 15 answers · asked by alam k 1 in Family

A couple of weeks ago I told one of my best friends that I really liked him and he said that he felt the same but was a bit worried about ruining a good friendship if things don't work out. We kissed for the first time about a week later and then again soon after. We went dancing this weekend and ended up in his car. (we didn't have sex). We haven't discussed what we're actually doing and where this is going. I didn't want to push him, especially since every time we went beyond our friendship we've both had quite a bit to drink so I didn't want to read too much into it. However last night I invited him over with a couple of other friends and after walking him to his car he waited till all drove off and gave me a good night kiss. Is this the beginning of something or should I not get too excited? Would it be pushing if I asked him where this was going?

2006-10-11 22:49:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come the media doesn't celebrate real men like they use to?
In television shows and movies today, Hollywood portrays almost all men as fags. Most men are these perfectly dressed feminist that are not what most men today are like. You see all the time men that are fashion experts, men that discuss relationship, or Men that come across as being totally gay. Why don't we have anymore Clint Eastwood, John Wayne, Rambo, or more guys thta are real men not these fags that take up tv time all day.

All I'm saying is men today are not like what is portrayed. The problem comes up when you get these women that are glued to the tv all day (like my wife) that expect men to behave like these guys on tv, and actually care about the way we dress or our relationships and crap like that which is rediculous.

2006-10-11 22:47:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-11 22:47:27 · 13 answers · asked by Sean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would just say hello and then they would just sign off..I know them and I love another guy so I am not chasing them but why they are acting so wierd...they are in the 7th and 9th grade...what a bunch of wierdos...

2006-10-11 22:47:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 22:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by suvrat p 1 in Singles & Dating

She's rich and i'm just a street rat...

2006-10-11 22:45:33 · 7 answers · asked by Chris P 1 in Singles & Dating

marriages is 4 reproduction & what else....there can be marriage btween nature & a human., animals & human etc...
why always male & female....

2006-10-11 22:45:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

l love my girl so much but i cheat on her loads< i sleep with different girls i get new numbers everyday i regret it but keep doing it> im 18 n i need help

2006-10-11 22:44:44 · 17 answers · asked by michael c 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend has lots of boy friends who work with her they sms her a lot i feel very anoyed but i did not tell her or ask her regarding this ....

2006-10-11 22:44:44 · 12 answers · asked by sakthi s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll take out the trash if you do, thanks honey

2006-10-11 22:42:40 · 10 answers · asked by Roscoe P Coletrain..yip yip 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Luke disapeared from wendell park/slit 11 October 2006. would like to know if he's ok.

2006-10-11 22:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kamilla 1 in Friends

I've asked a question about how my friend feels about me previously. But i still have doubts.


Here's something that is still etched in my mind.
Few months back. My friend whom i like, carassed my hair when i was doing some work. I kept quiet as i dont know how to react. I dont quite know it was affection or a prank but she really gently stroke my hair. I decided to stay cool with it. I'd go with silence means consent. She did it when most of my friends are away in that particular area.

What does it mean?
How do i go about it when she shows more affection?

2006-10-11 22:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I somehow let this lady be my friend ...just a friend, and now she seems to be expecting more than what i expect.
We have been friends for two years and she is asking me to make her feel like a woman because she has been lonely for three years.
She cries and begs me to be always close to her.
I think she is suffering from sexual hunger, what can i do?

2006-10-11 22:37:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Distance relationship:
From Europe to Asia...
yes some might works, some might not. especially when u only have after every 3mths to meet him, and the meeting only last for 3days. LOVE is hurt?fun?
HOW to know that he/she really loves you that much? as they don't see each other quite often. both party have no idea,what is he/she is doing?
so, anyone has the experience here, share wt us!! how do you see a distance realtionship. and for those success couple, how do you maintain the relationship.

2006-10-11 22:37:28 · 7 answers · asked by aeluxi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 22:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by emma h 1 in Friends

So my boyfriend wanted to go on a break with me. I know why. I'm very clingy and attatched to him, but he likes to go off on his own sometimes and it upsets me.

It used to be the other way around. I would go off and tell him I needed some space.

I can't deal with this break. It's tearing me up... I'm thinking about going to his work today and asking him to take me back, but the original date is sunday when he will take me to the movies and dinner, for the first time in a year and a half.

I need help. I can't cope. I don't know. What should I do? Am I crazy?

2006-10-11 22:37:18 · 18 answers · asked by travish 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have a crush on a guy in my class. just last month i got a letter from a guy saying that he likes me and it was signed as YOUR SECRET ADMIRER.i was unsure of asking him this till now if he had written that.i do think that he had written the letter.i think now i have the guts to ask him about it. could u suggest me how i ask him coz its also possible tht somebody else wrote it.so without making it too oblivious how do i ask him if he wrote it or not.suppose i ask him did u write any letter to me and if he didnt he will ask me which letter n stuff.so thats why i want to know how i ask him?

2006-10-11 22:34:43 · 9 answers · asked by cutegirl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been with him for 4 years. We have 2 children together and my youngest is 9mnths. 2 years ago there was an incidence where he told me he was going over to a friends house after work and he arrived home at 10:30pm smelling of perfume. When I first asked him he said it was his mates 6 yr old spraying the stuff everywhere, I told him not to insult my intelligence and he told me he had been to visit his ex girlfriend (I say girlfriend he was actually her bit on the side for 2 years while she was engaged and they were working together!) He was very unapologetic about it and simply said that they were friends, the ex was now married and he didnt tell me because he knew what my reaction would have been and that she had told him she still had feelings but he had said no because of me and my son. Admittedly I didnt totally believe him but felt I had no other choice at the time.

2006-10-11 22:33:57 · 26 answers · asked by TashaHol 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-11 22:32:58 · 6 answers · asked by Womz M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And how did you feel about it?I am asking about your first sexual experience.

2006-10-11 22:32:01 · 15 answers · asked by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-11 22:31:48 · 7 answers · asked by emma h 1 in Friends

a) A really hot girl who's a jerk and smokes
b) A somewhat cute girl who is clean and nice
c) A smart girl who is unpleasant to look at

2006-10-11 22:31:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-11 22:31:19 · 12 answers · asked by kris77 1 in Singles & Dating

1. What is your defenition of beauty in a woman?

2. Which celebrity do you think is beautiful and why?

3. Would you go out with someone who has a great personality but an ugly face?

2006-10-11 22:31:11 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know we are all different and like different types of people. I just want a cross section of opinions.
If there are any bigger women out there who think men just want thin women then maybe some of the responses will help.

2006-10-11 22:27:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just don't find them attractive, either physically, or worse still, their behaviour and personalities. Why is that?

2006-10-11 22:25:39 · 19 answers · asked by Bob M 1 in Singles & Dating