I somehow let this lady be my friend ...just a friend, and now she seems to be expecting more than what i expect.
We have been friends for two years and she is asking me to make her feel like a woman because she has been lonely for three years.
She cries and begs me to be always close to her.
I think she is suffering from sexual hunger, what can i do?
2006-10-11 22:37:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, this is complex situation. From what you have mentioned about this lady friend of yours, i assume she is definitely having a strong sex drive and hunger and wants a known devil rather than an unknown angel to satisfy her physical needs.
Well please do not ever give into her, because i don't think you are interested in having her for pleasure or for good. DUring pleasure, everthing may seem to be nice and good but after the act, you feel dirty, guily conscience and we really dont know what this lady has in mind. Who knows she may even force you to marry her or she will black mail you with some secret photos of both of you during the act. Pls pls refrain my dear and ask her to find someone else.
2006-10-11 22:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R right she is sexually hungry, but leaving her alone is not the solution of the problem. Tell her to behave and make her understand the she should find a suitable mate (not U) to get married. You should then leave her and enjoy your life with girl of your age group.
2006-10-12 06:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Atif Mirza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sleeping with her would be the end of the friendship.She needs to grow up and learn separating being a friend and a lover.Ä°f she can't,that's not your problem.Tell her how you feel and tell her that if she keeps pushing you to do something that you don't want to do,then she's going to lose you.Good luck friend :-)
2006-10-12 05:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have told u to bang her but i know u'll only like it the first few times then u'll not want to see her besides u can meet her physical needs gladly but i dont think u can meet her emotional ones
Tell her u dont want to go down that route
2006-10-12 06:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her for who she is and not judge her for wot she has turned into !
She might need a friend more than having someone in bed! Be a friend not a lover and u will make the BEST UNCONDITIONAL friend a woman can have!!
2006-10-12 05:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by choilein 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let the lady know that initially, it was just an ordinary friendship and it still is. Probably you have given her another signal and now you want to back-off. Just be fair to yourself and the lady.
2006-10-12 07:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about what you feel regarding your friendship. Let her know that she is making you uncomfortable. Perhaps you can hook her up with someone who would love to handle her needs.
2006-10-12 06:12:02 · answer #7 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit w/ her and tell her that friendship is all you're willing to have and if she continues to act that way that you'll have to end the friendship.
2006-10-12 05:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by abra_got_personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk it out straight to her that you are not interested in her and you don't have any feelings for her.
2006-10-12 05:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either satisfy her hunger or let her know you are not interested.
2006-10-12 05:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋