Affectionate?

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I've asked a question about how my friend feels about me previously. But i still have doubts.

Here's something that is still etched in my mind.
Few months back. My friend whom i like, carassed my hair when i was doing some work. I kept quiet as i dont know how to react. I dont quite know it was affection or a prank but she really gently stroke my hair. I decided to stay cool with it. I'd go with silence means consent. She did it when most of my friends are away in that particular area.

What does it mean?
How do i go about it when she shows more affection?

2006-10-11 22:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating

I like it when she strokes my hair but if just dont know how to go about it. I want to repay it by showing some affection too, but i'm just shy.

2006-10-11 22:51:31 · update #1

And she belongs to a different ethnic group

2006-10-11 23:23:20 · update #2

10 answers

If you are the only guy that she does this to, I'd say that she has a thing for you. If you are not sure, why don't you ask her out. As a woman, I will tell you that I rub my guy's head out if affection. If you enjoy it and you like her, why don't you ask her out? That is if you don't have a problem with her ethnicity. it's evident that she doesn't have a problem with yours. Also the next time she does it I would say lean into it by doing this she will know that you enjoy it, otherwise she may think that you don't like it and stop. Good luck!

2006-10-11 23:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Try encouraging it slightly but not too much just enough to find out how she feels, next time she does this stroke her hand and see how she reacts if she pulls away and is like " what you doin?!" just say i thought you were someone else, she will be embarrassed more than you in this case so it wont matter but i think she probably does like you hence your friends not being around of she was having a laugh she would do it in front of them. No-one like to make things obvious. I think you should give it a whirl, you only live once, so you may as well go for it.

2006-10-11 22:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Christina x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

We all need to love and to be loved.

Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.

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2006-10-11 22:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋

2006-10-11 22:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋

Tell her in a nice way to stop. If you are uncomfortable you should tell her so. Noone has the right to make you feel uneasy.

2006-10-11 22:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

if you enjoyed it than respond to it, go with the flow dont even think about it, if it made you uncomfortable, say so now before you send mixed messages, and risk jeopardizing the friendship!

2006-10-11 22:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Phaque tu" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

say i'm sorry but i'm not gay but don't not be my friend cause i still like you . but it makes me feel funny inside and puts me in a insincere mood i don't mind you stroking my hair but thats it no farther ok

2006-10-11 22:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

If she brings you happiness. You've found one of the meaning of life!

Enjoy it!

2006-10-11 22:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by aarshi72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Did you like it? If you didn't, why not just tell her to stop? And if you do, why are you asking about it?

2006-10-11 22:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by It's Been Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

................ say it feels nice ..................

2006-10-11 22:44:23 · answer #10 · answered by spaceman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋