Family & Relationships - 9 October 2006

2006-10-09 12:21:00 · 10 answers · asked by bookshopfish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

newly wed over 1yr. Had baby ,I grew up and found stedy jjob asked her to stay home and enjoy mother hood.. since she was raised by grandmother while mom partys.before baby come we move into aour own place i dont ask for much just a clean housenow her mom want to basicly raise my baby and i wont have that. she sleeps all day and has panic attacks before i come home & realizes that the house is a mess. we fight about it and shee leaves all weekend long comes back 2 a clean house and just lays in bed does not ask how the baby was doing and expects to make love like nothing happen

2006-10-09 12:20:40 · 9 answers · asked by helpless in il. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Havent had much luck finding many... anyone out there who can help me out?

2006-10-09 12:20:04 · 2 answers · asked by emailsaville 2 in Weddings

Should I tell a girl how I feel about them even if they already have a boyfriend?

2006-10-09 12:19:54 · 14 answers · asked by neelvpatel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-09 12:19:18 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

email or IM each other, asking each other questions and/or experiences...

2006-10-09 12:18:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So, I was going to ask this girl out today after class, but
Another guy came right behind her and started a long " walk'n'talk " thing so i couldn't make a move or anything; however, i thought i'd wait till they finished talking and go and ask. But then i thought to myself " wtf, she'll think this is weird. " So. My question is : what if the same thing happens tomorrow; should I just go and wait until they're finished or should I move fast and drop the bomb ( before that guy comes out) . -- Help ><

2006-10-09 12:18:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My B-day is coming up in a few days, and I need some ideas on what to do. So far all I have planned is to go see two movies(the grudge2 and texas chainsaw massacre the beggining) and order chinese food. Basicaly that's all I have planned. Maybe get some things to drink, and enjoy reading a good book that night.

Does this seem okay? Or do you have some suggestions on other things that I can do.

2006-10-09 12:17:29 · 6 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Friends

This guy has a girlfriend, and he keeps breakin up with her, but goes back to her because he hates the single life. His girlfriend is in a different state and is a complete b**** to him and cheats on him frequently. How do I get him away from her, for good, and into me? PLEASE HELP!

2006-10-09 12:17:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a question just now about whether anyone would date someone who self harmed and almost everyone said no. I'm beginning to think I've screwed up the rest of my life and will never find anyoine. The scars on my arms and legs are as deep as the chasms of tartarus and I can't stop myself doing it because I get so down and depressed. What is my life going to become? Will I be alone forever?

2006-10-09 12:17:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personal address and phone number.

2006-10-09 12:17:03 · 0 answers · asked by bgplin 1 in Friends

2006-10-09 12:16:53 · 26 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

I know he likes me and likes to spend time with me. He says he thinks about me all the time. He has sent me a love poem in en email. He doesn't pressure me into having sex but tells me he wants to. (We have not had sex). We started going out to lunch as friends and it developed into more. He is seeing another woman and I told him from the beginning that there wouldn't be anythings besides friendship for us. Unfortunately our lunches were all of fun and we just started to have feelings more than friendship. Now we haven't acted on these other than hugs and kisses. (Please don't lecture me about how wrong it it, I'm aware). My question for guys is could he possibly be falling in love with me? Or is he just a player. My gut says he really cares about me. He is in his late 30's. We've been going out for about 3 months, the first month was just as friends. It was after that that things started to change. I care about him alot, I think I might be falling for him too.

2006-10-09 12:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by Martha T 1 in Singles & Dating

I THINK I AM

2006-10-09 12:16:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is a very nice guy and he understands me cuz we both have gone though alot of the same stuff... but he does things like cuz he loves me he carves his name into his arm when he is cutting himself and stuff and he has been though alot im not gonna menchion on here so dont answer about the cutting im just saying... how can I deal with that and how should I respond?

2006-10-09 12:16:21 · 4 answers · asked by Artificially Sweet 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok for a Qunice girl to have only 6 males at her side and no girls? Or are girls and guys required.

Note: I saw a quince girl with only 6 guys, and none of them wanted to be with her. No girls were present. Is this Usual?

Are Quince girls required to be virgins still today, and if they are not what color dress do they wear nowadays?

2006-10-09 12:15:31 · 11 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Weddings

2006-10-09 12:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by bookshopfish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you believe some people have it in them to commit adultery while others do not. I recently divorced my husband - I found out he was having an affair. This was his second time. I would not or could not cheat. I even waited until out divorce was final before i started dating even though I had the opportunity. Why do some of us feel so strongly about adultery while other have no problems with it? Any suggestions?

2006-10-09 12:14:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you stay in the relationship if you found out that your bf was being settled to another girl that his mother wants for him? And he told you that he doesn’t want to fight with them? Is that mean that he cant fight the love he has for you?
Lately you found a ladies dress in his room and confess to you that his mother invited her to spent the weekend in their house or in his room? Would you believed theres nothing happen to them as he insist?
Is he also trying to get along with that girl? How would I know?
I wanted him realized that I am the right girl for him not for what his mother wants for him. He is old enough.. though it was a part of their Chinese culture. I am always a good girl… don’t know what to do more….

2006-10-09 12:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by anne615 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay...
im not so bright when people like me or not.
but in the end guys as friends arent friends....they tell me they like me and ...well i have always just known them as FRIENDS.


today at art class this asian kid kept stairing at me.
he wonders around by my friends and when i come he goes.
every time he passes my table he staires at me and my art project...
so...well im confused


1)is he just stealing my idea of art work
2)does he hate me
3)does he wantes to be friends?
4)does he like me?
5)or am i just dumb?

i feel really stupid!!!*waaahhh!!!*

2006-10-09 12:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Singles & Dating

Plz post sites and thoughts etc. Prefer sites that are free with no subscription! Thanku.

2006-10-09 12:14:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I am engaged to a man with 3 teen girls, twins that are going to be 14 this month and a 15 year old. One of the twins refuses to take showers (will take one once a month if no one told her to take one). She also throws major tantrums, throwing things at the walls and at people, screaming, slamming doors, destroying her room, etc. She has ADD or ADHD (can't remember which one since all girls have one or the other). Her sisters do NOT do this stuff. If they get upset, they just go to their rooms or let you know. She is a lot like her dad in the shower department and I know that some pre-teens do this behavior (I helped my ex to raise his two from small children to adutls), but not to this extreme. Her mom is threatning to have her move in with us. She would be bored in a few minutes and want to go home. How can their mom, dad, and I help her to see that doing this is not ok, and that she MUST take a shower quite often?

2006-10-09 12:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by honey 6 in Family

i want to kiss my girlfriend but i am really nervous and i dont know how to approach it. please help me..

2006-10-09 12:13:49 · 10 answers · asked by amigo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many days a week? And for how long? I want to see how everyone else does it before I give an answer to my daughter. I feel weekends are enough. SHe wants to see him weekdays from 5pm till 9pm, and then on the weekends all day until midnight.... UGH..........

2006-10-09 12:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by barbaradjt 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been together for 5 years, and she has wanted a baby for about 2 years now. About a year ago we decided to plan for our first baby, we bought safe cars, paid off all our debt, traveled, did home improvements, etc. We decided to start in January 2007 because our house will be paid off in August 2007 and we will have plenty of money for a baby.

My wife has been getting more anxious lately about trying for a baby. We have 3 more months before our “starting” date and she is getting moody with me because she feels she has been waiting for years and the last few months have been torture for her. Two of her friends (who are have been with their boyfriends for less than 2 years) are pregnant, so now she is more upset then ever.

How do I get her to be patient for the last 3 months? I am excited too, but she is way anxious to start and I feel bad for telling her no, but we need to wait until January. I want all my ducks in a row before we start trying!

Help me!

2006-10-09 12:13:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How much does Kmart pay per hour for a regular employee? non management positions. thx

2006-10-09 12:13:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who wants a naggy friend who is constantly bitching about needing help and other stuff? I don't. I want independent, self-sufficient friends.

2006-10-09 12:12:54 · 10 answers · asked by Bright Eyes 4 in Friends

if so, what roles did you like?

2006-10-09 12:12:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know i made some mistakes and there shouldn be no "buts
i tried to make her see the fun side of life , excitement is what she needed

2006-10-09 12:12:36 · 2 answers · asked by CUTEZY 1 in Friends

Well... I am 11 and I LOVE this boy, Trevor. I know, I'm too young to be in love, but if you've been really good friends with a boy for 5 years, you gotta love 'em... Well here's the problem:

I KNOW he likes me back, but at my age, what's a good way to tell him I like him and that I think about him all the time without freaking him out?

I like him and would hate to screw up our freindship...

Thank you in advance
Casey


I am anxious

2006-10-09 12:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by thatgirl908 1 in Singles & Dating