Would you stay in the relationship if you found out that your bf was being settled to another girl that his mother wants for him? And he told you that he doesn’t want to fight with them? Is that mean that he cant fight the love he has for you?
Lately you found a ladies dress in his room and confess to you that his mother invited her to spent the weekend in their house or in his room? Would you believed theres nothing happen to them as he insist?
Is he also trying to get along with that girl? How would I know?
I wanted him realized that I am the right girl for him not for what his mother wants for him. He is old enough.. though it was a part of their Chinese culture. I am always a good girl… don’t know what to do more….
2006-10-09 12:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by anne615 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His mother is not doing this he is and you being gullible. Get away from this [player. he's cheating on you and blaming his mother of all people. Find a guy that will respect you this guy is a BIG CHEATER!!!!!
2006-10-09 12:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, what YOU think is right for him is not the same as what HE thinks is right for him. Don't be naive. If he liked you and wanted to be with you, he would explain it to his mother. He just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you he doesn't think you're a serious prospect, and he's exercising other options while still keeping you near. It's a degrading situation to be in, please get out before you get hurt even more. You're wasting your time with this guy.
2006-10-09 12:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to back out of this relationship, he is probably going to go along with his mother, and you are going to be left out, so do not stay and be hurt any longer, leave him. right now he wants you and the other girl. Do not waste any more time and energy on him!
2006-10-09 12:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) If he isn't to fight for you, then someday he will only fight w/ you.
b) Cultural gaps take 2 to bridge.
c) Move on before you get hurt more. If he is serious, he'll follow.
2006-10-09 12:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're living in a fantasy world. Please, Please, Wake Up. This guy is running "game" for sure. When you look back at this situation you'll be glad you got out.
2006-10-09 12:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by b-angie-b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋