newly wed over 1yr. Had baby ,I grew up and found stedy jjob asked her to stay home and enjoy mother hood.. since she was raised by grandmother while mom partys.before baby come we move into aour own place i dont ask for much just a clean housenow her mom want to basicly raise my baby and i wont have that. she sleeps all day and has panic attacks before i come home & realizes that the house is a mess. we fight about it and shee leaves all weekend long comes back 2 a clean house and just lays in bed does not ask how the baby was doing and expects to make love like nothing happen
2006-10-09 12:20:40 · 9 answers · asked by helpless in il. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if i was u, yes, but if you love her...
2006-10-09 12:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, very good but no dont leave your wife sometimes after a women has a baby she is a little different at first give her some time doesnt sound like she had a good mother and it sounds like she is scared she is going to mess up and she is trying to escape so that she won't mess up let her know you need her at home and that you love her and 1 big mess up dont tell her to grown up i promise that will only make her more childish give her some time and she will be fine just make sure when you come home and while you are at home you aint on the computer all the time spend time with her and love her and your new baby let her know you couldnt be without her she needs to know this I've been though it and this is what I needed my husband to computer less and me more. Family 1st.
2006-10-09 12:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who would take a good care of your baby, ( YOUR family member or a close
friend) While she is on one of her weekend's
escaped change the lock at your door. Go to
stay at a friend's house for a while and don't let her know where you are.Meantime issue the paper for separation or divorce.
2006-10-09 12:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your baby and leave...sounds like she has alot of growing up to do!!! What do her parent think of her comming for days at a time w/o her child..hmmm something's wrong with this picture!!!! Good luck guy!!!!!
2006-10-09 12:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some marriage you have! If it's that way now, she'll either get worse of better. See how it goes in a month, if it gets worse, you need a divorce! You child can't take that! If it gets better, give her a chance.
2006-10-09 12:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to see her doctor, she has become depressed due to her pregnancy, dont leave her now. This can hurt her and your new family.
2006-10-09 12:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by Nickerbockers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOUR WIFE IS DOING THE ROLES OF HER GRANDMOTHER DID, SHE HAS BIG TIME ISSUES,IF I WAS YOU I WOULD FIND ANOTHER WOMAN THAT YOU ARE HAPPY WITH IT ISNT HARD TO CONCIDER THE NEEDS OF YOUR PARTNER AND YOUR CHILD,THEN YOUR PARENTS,AS SHE IS MARRIED TO YOU NOT THEM,THEY ARE HER FAMILY BUT SHE HAS HER OWN RESPONSIBILITES NOW
2006-10-09 12:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by staffie lover from Aussie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her now...
Sooner is better than later...
2006-10-09 12:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she doesnt deserve her children
2006-10-09 12:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by Lilolme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋