Well... I am 11 and I LOVE this boy, Trevor. I know, I'm too young to be in love, but if you've been really good friends with a boy for 5 years, you gotta love 'em... Well here's the problem:
I KNOW he likes me back, but at my age, what's a good way to tell him I like him and that I think about him all the time without freaking him out?
I like him and would hate to screw up our freindship...
Thank you in advance
Casey
I am anxious
2006-10-09 12:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by thatgirl908 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't spend 5 points to have mean old guys lecture me
2006-10-09 12:14:49 · update #1
As request of an answerer i must say his age... 11 as well
2006-10-09 12:18:35 · update #2
Just focus on school baby!
U will have time for boys later!
2006-10-09 12:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, if he's like your best friend and has been so for five years, then you should just ask him who he likes. Because friends are great enough to trust each other. If he doesn't say you then you can't do anything unless you try to win him over by being the best friend you ever could be. If he likes you, then you can tell him that you like him too, no harm done.
I'm about your same age and I had a little trouble with that too...I worked through it, you'll be fine.
You might want to add to your question how long you've liked him...just if you want to!
2006-10-09 19:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
!st let me tell you to be 11 as long as you can. Don't try to be 15. 2nd before you do anything know this, friendship is very important and it is very difficult to remain friends after you have been boyfriend and girlfriend. Now that you know those things, if you presist in letting this boy know that you like him, proceed as follows.
When you are together and the time feels right (you feel confident enough to talk) start the conversation. Simply state that you like him not only as a friend but that you are starting to like him in a different way. Make sure to tell him that your friendship is important and that it is okay if he doesn't feel the same way. Tell him that you are worried about ruining your friendship. And, then let him talk.
2006-10-09 19:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by BParker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, young lady. The best way to tell someone you love them is to tell them. Plain and simple. If indeed you are afraid of his reaction, it may take time. Usually when people are inlove or when people love others they're supposed to have confidence that the feelings they feel are valid and nothing will change, but in this case FEAR of rejection means alittle more than you apparent love for this guy.
People only freak out when someone says: 'I love you' when they're not mature enough to accept it or if they have FEARS of any nature which would prevent them EXPRESSING THEMSELVES COMPLETELY & FREELY. So... what are you waiting for?? Express yourself, but only if You feel comfortable. Who knows, he might feel the same way......
2006-10-09 19:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Darius J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait for a few more year, 4 or 6 years to b exact. i have known a guy all my life and trust me i am not 11, i have feelings for him but i havent told him yet because i dont know what love is, u are too young i am sorry to say but thats the truth, i am still giving it more time and u should too :), u have a crush but dont say u love.
2006-10-09 19:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by uzenze 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay - you have your head on pretty straight. Keep it light - boys are still in fog stage before they move to "Wow - girl bodies are different."
Try: A card -'net card if he has it -U+ME = EMU spelled backwards!!! (And a really great friendship. I like U.me."
2006-10-09 19:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You neglected to tell us how old this boy is. You are eleven years old. Is this a boy your parents would approve of you being with?
2006-10-09 19:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Patricia W 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You guys are only 11. Just tell him you like him then hit him in his arm.
He'll get the message.
It worked when I was your age.
Ah, to be young again.
2006-10-09 19:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are too young to be here. Now go finish your English assignment.
2006-10-09 19:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
well honey first of all you too young to be thinkin about guys you should be focused on your school and other things n if you think you want to be with him if he is your true friend then you shouldnt have to worry about wat he will think you never if the feelings are the same bak to you... well gpod luck honey
2006-10-09 19:18:20 · answer #10 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋