So, I was going to ask this girl out today after class, but
Another guy came right behind her and started a long " walk'n'talk " thing so i couldn't make a move or anything; however, i thought i'd wait till they finished talking and go and ask. But then i thought to myself " wtf, she'll think this is weird. " So. My question is : what if the same thing happens tomorrow; should I just go and wait until they're finished or should I move fast and drop the bomb ( before that guy comes out) . -- Help ><
2006-10-09
12:18:04
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Family & Relationships
➔ Singles & Dating
- Same class together
-That is also in the same class
- He sits right behind her
-I sit on the far left
-He stalled her in the room so i couldn't get a real chance.
-NO fu***** clue where she goes after & before class
UP THE IRON
2006-10-09
12:27:11 ·
update #1
edit*- he's in the same class as me & her
2006-10-09
12:28:32 ·
update #2
Go for it...the early bird gets the worm.
2006-10-09 12:21:11
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Ok, you need to start a "walk-n-talk" conversation as you call it. Get to her first but don't run or act like your in a hurry. Take the intiative and while your having the walk and talk ask her out then, but don't do it first thing. Waiting is the key. You can't wait to long, but you can't do it to fast. So be patient, and hopefully you will be able to tell when it is the right time. If it doesn't go well it's alright there are a million other girls. Practice makes perfect.
2006-10-09 12:25:11
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answered by Hitch 1
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I'd give it one more day to see if they do the same thing. If they don't - no problem. If they do, then I think the first choice would be to try and find another time. If that's not possible, then I guess it depends on how long you could make between getting to her and the other guy getting there. You don't want to rush it, but you also don't want to be interupted. If you can do that, do it early, if not, wait 'til they're done.
Good luck!
2006-10-09 12:24:46
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answered by Jess 2
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Do this. If this f*g walks and talks again, stand right behind her and give her something like a pencil, pen or even a dollar. Say hey you dropped this and when you do this tell her between her and this guy. If she says it isn't mine then tell her well keep it and when you use it again you think of me. Only if she's that kind of mushy girl. But what ever you do keep talking and don't let her carry on the conversation with that f#g.Oh yeah, if your shy, then grab some balls and remember now or never.
2006-10-09 12:29:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you in class together? Try passing her a note "meet me outside after class", or "I want to walk you to your next class".
Or are you waiting for her outside a class that she's in, but you're not? If that's the case, just keep waiting for her and eventually she'll come out of class alone. Don't follow them and wait until they're done...you'll look like a stalker. And don't move too fast, you'll also look like a stalker.
2006-10-09 12:21:12
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answered by Jen H 3
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Why wait, just go and ask the girl already! If you wait It will be even harder to ask her or anyone else out. Find a new event, and invite her to come along. But, if she's one of those girls who has not noticed you yet... then forget about her, move on!!!!
2006-10-09 12:25:27
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answered by Joe E 1
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Move fast! Let her know!
I was all prepared to give my usual smartassed reply, but Iron Maiden is one of my favorite bands.
2006-10-09 12:20:22
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answered by Anonymous
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This guy cant be there all the time .... pass her a note or something ...sigh
Dr Bad
or ask another girl
2006-10-09 12:28:25
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answered by Anonymous
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as long as it isn't her b/f just go for it ,lol what do you have to lose
you'll be glad you did. you wont have to keep wondering all the time ,whether she will or not.before someone beats you to it
good luck
2006-10-09 12:23:35
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask her as soon as she leaves class.
2006-10-09 12:22:00
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answered by rustybones 6
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