Family & Relationships - 8 October 2006

I think my boyfriend wants my virginity, and now my mom wants me on the pill. I'M ONLY 13!!! I don't know what 2 do. My boyfriend has already been with 2 other girls, and now i think he wants to have sex w/ me and i'm scared. I've been having these weird dreams about having sex w/ him and ending up pregnant and i don't want that 2 happen 2 me. I just really need y'all's help on this. Should I give it 2 him?

2006-10-08 06:17:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my story, I am 21 years old and am going through a divorce. I was married for 2 and a half years, and 90 % of the time I was supporting my husband and me and our 2 dogs. I couldn't put up with it anymore so I kicked him out, he was always doing drugs and off with his buddies, the reason we got married is because I was pregnet. Well, 2 weeks after we got married I miscarried, had a tubal pregnancy. I am paying for the divorce. Now I am dating someone who I really care about, he's black and I am white, he has 3 kids, and is also 10 years older than me. My parents never accepted my husband til now, they think I should go back to him or move back home because "my mom needs me" , my mom has a lot of health problems and is clinically depressed. I have been having to deal with this since I was young. I just want to live my own life. My parents aren't usually racist, but they said I could never bring him around and that I am alienating myself from them. Any advice is appreciated

2006-10-08 06:16:29 · 15 answers · asked by alleybug_2003 1 in Family

what do guys look for in a girl....... just wounderin

2006-10-08 06:16:11 · 9 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 06:15:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im married and we have been together for almost 4 yrs now.when we started it was great he used to be v carin,listen to me,understand me.but now i feel he is fallin outat love.i have asked him this but he gets upset and then i feel bad about that.i feel that he only gets lovey dovey when he is in a mood for****.we have a lotta argues and he never listenms to me.like if im tellin him to concentrate on his job and all he blames me for havin nuffin and tells me that its my duty to keep on reminin him to tc of his health and his job and all.i try my best to keep his family happy.but he is so careless he wont even b bothered to inform me if anythin happens to them.i have to do this all by myslf and when tell him to treat them nicely.i feel like a looser now and im so sik of this all no.but even aftera fite i start feelin bad after sometimes & call him & all.he has at times kept me waiting all nite for him & didnt even bother to call m:(im so hurta nd i dunno wat to do?he is fallin out luv?

2006-10-08 06:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by afriend 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are italian girls pretty, what colour eyes and hair do they have? What do the look like?!

2006-10-08 06:13:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am a white woman and i am inlove with an indian man. he loves me too but he is afraid as he feels he is letting his family down. why?

2006-10-08 06:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by YOLA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 06:12:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a stay at home mom and my husband comes home late or dont answer my calls sometimes and when we go somewhere he is always looking around like he is looking for some one. i always think he is cheating on me but i also think that it might be just me worring to much because ever boyfriend i ever had has cheated on me. what should i do?

2006-10-08 06:11:22 · 24 answers · asked by leelee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 06:09:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my hubby an his friend are often out in the yard talking and the wife of his friend comes out. Her pants must be so uncomfortable! right up her hoochy - coockie! big *** camel-toe. I am so humiliated by it , I don't dare go out an join the conversation. I have explained how I feel towards her to my hubby an how uncomfortable this makes me feel! inwhich , my hubby never acts the least bit odd or even stares that way. but it does bother me that she is so disgusting! would it be right to say something to her even tho she will get pissed off at me? how would you handle this situation?

2006-10-08 06:09:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-08 06:08:52 · 9 answers · asked by David A 1 in Weddings

Mine is people being late.
And people telling lies.

2006-10-08 06:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think it's normal to for girls to act like this or is it that she loves me so much ? she says that n matter how much i try i'll always be a baby to her. Kinda weird isn't it ?

2006-10-08 06:08:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay there is this really HOT guy at my church and today at the end when we shake the pasters hand he was like 10ft in front of me and he kept on smiling at me (i do not have any disgusting features) and i think he was singnaling me to come talk to him. he kinda did that look that makes u think he likes u. but 2wks ago i think he brought his gf to church i dont know if they broke up or what. and he is 6yrs older than me

2006-10-08 06:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

always argue so much? They always seem to want to prove that they are correct about certain issues. Is it their way of proving to themselves that they are smart?

2006-10-08 06:07:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my husband for almost 11 years and in that time he has gotten progressively worse when it comes to his angery outbursts. Its hard to deal with now that we've brought our three year old daughter into the picture. He works many hours and he only gets one day a week off *Sunday* and it seems that for all the time we spend apart, the one day we get together we should be getting a long and being happy but we typically end up fighting or he's angry about something. I have left him once over the situation and asked him to seek counseling or even to talk to someone close but he refused. He got on meds and that seemed to help but now he's going back to his old ways again. When do you finally say, enough is a enough and throw in the towel? I am starting to question whether I even love him anymore and if I want to deal with this either. What do you think?

2006-10-08 06:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's gots to be about a hunderd differnt tings all made outta Black hills Gold and Uncle Fester told me I could have it all if i be real nice to him. Do you think it's worth anything? I mean the ankle bracelets we found was breathtakin'. They sparkle like the tiniest star up in the sky. And I think one of 'em gots a diamond in it.,

2006-10-08 06:05:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i been goin out with this guy for 10 months and he doesnt cook he doesnt take the trash out i clean his house like almost everyday cause he lives like a slob.

2006-10-08 06:05:45 · 8 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

Hense that i said SOME women.
For instance, there was this one girl who i used to like back when i was in high school. but she wouldnt give me the time of day then. she used to go with this man that used to treat her real bad. i ran into her again about a month ago and she was all interested in me all of a sudden. i politely smiled and told her that she was now a part of my history, and then i told her goodbye and god bless.

2006-10-08 06:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i moved into this house in august the first couple of weeks were fine then the landlords druggie son the maintnace man started harasseing us he tried to fight my husband for no reason he starts working on something never finishes it and leaves his work stuff all over our yard his kids play in our yard and trash it and him himself throws beer can in our yard and the bed of our truck.repairs are needed on the house and was suppose to be fixed month ago the roof leaked and ruined our mattress and box springs when we went to complain about this the landlord told us that hes giveing us until the first to move out we never been late on the rent or violated the lease i know he needs a court order to evict us should i take legal action on this guy?

2006-10-08 06:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by sar sar 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

From your answers i can come to a conclusion it wasnt love they said they felt. Nevermind

2006-10-08 06:03:12 · 24 answers · asked by kel_mccoy_uk555 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-08 06:01:52 · 2 answers · asked by zack b 1 in Friends

2006-10-08 06:01:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just curious because now I am a young man, and one day I will be an old man. I hope to have sex until the day I die but I suppose it has alot to do with the positive health habits one maintains through life that will affect their ability to have sex in the golden years. Additionally, how is the sex in the golden years as compared to the more youthful years?

2006-10-08 06:01:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I went to the clinic to put myself on birth control and the doctor said that she was worried about me because I had said that I had more than 5 sex partners this year. She said that it probably has a lot to do with my beauty. I feel horrible, I broke my fast for Ramadan and I ended up having sex with my boyfriend. I don't understand, it's really hard for me to say 'no' to a guy who says he wants sex. I don't even like to have sex. Why am I like this?

2006-10-08 06:01:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have always made fun of people of said they love someone even if it had been like 2 or 3 months. i just thought it was too soon and stupid. but, i met my boyfriend three weeks ago and i havent told him this because i know it would scare him and i think it's soooo stupid. but i know that i love him. he's the one i've been looking for, for a long time. is this possible? can this really be love? and if so, am i going crazy for having feelings like this?

2006-10-08 06:01:20 · 3 answers · asked by doodlebug 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-08 06:00:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

.... has knowingly dated a Bi-Sexual man? I personally think it's gross, but what is your opinion? 10pts for best answer.

2006-10-08 06:00:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how much money to spend on my 2 year old at xmas?
most of my friends spend 100 of pounds on there children at xmas on what they want but i just cant afford it.

2006-10-08 05:59:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family