Hense that i said SOME women.
For instance, there was this one girl who i used to like back when i was in high school. but she wouldnt give me the time of day then. she used to go with this man that used to treat her real bad. i ran into her again about a month ago and she was all interested in me all of a sudden. i politely smiled and told her that she was now a part of my history, and then i told her goodbye and god bless.
2006-10-08 06:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women are just blind to love. They usually feel they can change a person..(the bad ones) It is always good to know you have that specail someone (the male friend who is usually madly in love) to fall back on. Of course thats not good for the man. I know because I have been with the worst of the worst. I've been badly beaten by a man I loved more than life and etc etc. But women usually wake up and realize that while searching for the right one true love has been staring them in the face the whole time.....As for why do they do it? other than the fact that we think we can change ppl. or we want we want we want....your guess as is good as any honey. All women have their own reasons. you just gotta figure out what they REALLY want/need and at the same time figure out what it is YOU want/need. Good luck sweetheart!
2006-10-08 06:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are attracted to men who give them that certain emotional "rush", and will do just about anything to be with a guy who makes them feel that way. It makes no logical sense whatsoever, and I completely understand where you're coming from. In my early twenties, I had everything going for me - tall, intelligent, devastatingly good-looking (sort of), and I know how to treat a woman right, yet they didn't want to be with me either, because I didn't know how to create that "spark".
From what I've learned, women are NOT attracted to guys they can control or manipulate, and if you do things like kissing her @ss and basically making your entire life revolve around her, you're going to push her away. That's not saying that you should be rude or an @ss to her - just show her that you're your own man, and you DON'T need her to make you happy.
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2006-10-08 13:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I know what you mean. I was such a loser in high school but I changed A LOT after high school and all of a sudden girls start to like me. I remembered how I used to like this then "attractive" girl back in HS but she went out with this a** and she thought she was always too good for me. Now years later she's not as attractive and neither is that guy. How the tables have turned!
2006-10-08 13:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Christopher45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you said SOME women! Some women look for the wrong things in a man. Some are so obsessed with looks, money, the way they dress that they ignore the important things, like personality, intelligence, sincerity. Don't worry, though. You will find someone to appreciate your sweet nature. You did the right thing with her.
2006-10-08 13:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Social_D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it has something to do w/the self image some People have of themselves. I have known the same behavior from both sexes but mostly in the females. Perhaps it has something to do with not having a father figure or a very bad one. Good question.
2006-10-08 13:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you said what you had to now you are all grown up you can see she just might not be good for you. I only hope you did'nt say that just to get back at her for how she was when you guys were in school.
People can change & needs change. This just might be the case with the two of you.
2006-10-08 13:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the bad guy seems like a fantasy for some girls. I don't get some girls but they like a challenge. And when the guy that treats them like crap doesn't want them they go to their second choice. It's sick I would never do that. Don't try to be like those guys though. Be with a girl that pays attention to you.
2006-10-08 13:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by RooRoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not some
a lot
at a young age a women will date bad guys for element of danger ( something you do not have ) , for strength in the psychical realm ( again you lack this ) in the mental sense ( like stand up for them and fight for them if necessary, something you lack ) and most of all women like to fix up men, it gives them power to see thru a guys "possibility".. when in reality a guy is set on his life long course he tends to stay that way
as women get older they tend to realize there flawed dating habits and will eventually choose a more successful and "nice" guy
2006-10-08 13:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are weird man, who knows why. Maybe she liked you back then but never had the guts to tell you and you just blew her off. Way to go.
2006-10-08 13:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she was traped. and now that she is older she relieze the good and the bad. she now knows better. maybe back then she did'nt . she grew up. and for u to be so mean was wrong. it sounds like u did'nt hear her out. maybe she was looking for a friend to talk to.
2006-10-08 13:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋