i love my hubby a lot but im feelin like a looser in this relationship.what shud i do?

Question

im married and we have been together for almost 4 yrs now.when we started it was great he used to be v carin,listen to me,understand me.but now i feel he is fallin outat love.i have asked him this but he gets upset and then i feel bad about that.i feel that he only gets lovey dovey when he is in a mood for****.we have a lotta argues and he never listenms to me.like if im tellin him to concentrate on his job and all he blames me for havin nuffin and tells me that its my duty to keep on reminin him to tc of his health and his job and all.i try my best to keep his family happy.but he is so careless he wont even b bothered to inform me if anythin happens to them.i have to do this all by myslf and when tell him to treat them nicely.i feel like a looser now and im so sik of this all no.but even aftera fite i start feelin bad after sometimes & call him & all.he has at times kept me waiting all nite for him & didnt even bother to call m:(im so hurta nd i dunno wat to do?he is fallin out luv?

Answer 1

He is trying to put all the guilt on you. Don't allow that to happen as it is he who has the issues and can't or won't be honest with you about his feelings. If he loved you he would most certainly understand where your coming from and would make sure you felt secure in this marriage. Honey when they don't care they could care less about how your feeling and that way they can tell others she was such a nagging woman why or how could I live in that all the time. Back off and see how he reacts toward that.

Answer 2

First of all you must remember that things don't stay wine and roses. They fall into mundane routines and day to day drudgery. Some of this can be helped but some of it is unavoidable. You must work hard on your relationship just to keep it marginally interesting after the "new" wears off.
Secondly, it is very possible that he is just stressed out and that the two of you speak completely different love languages.
You both need to read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman and take it from there.
Good luck!

Answer 3

If he is falling out of love with you ask him over and over. There has got to be a reason. Try planning something special like a romantic evening like a picnic on the beach or swimming in the moonlight. or if you have a hot tub

Answer 4

connect something of the dwarfs??? lol...ummm...attempt a million. dozing 2. listening to track(loud is the main suitable) 3. devour something. 4. locate somebody grumpyer then you quite. 5. pay attention to the Transformers Rap on youtube, whether you do in comparison to rap(I certaintly do no longer) its relaxing to observe. Edit: Is that your actual photograph?? Edit(2): awwww....your lovable!! ^^ to no longer make that sound creepy or something. Sorry if that does!!! XP

Answer 5

Something is giong on with him that is making him distant from you--don't feel bad for asking because when he gets mad that just means he's on the defense--which makes him even more suspect--talk to him and tell him that if you loved me you'd tell me what's going on and not lash out at me just for trying to make us work--
Good Luck

Answer 6

Their is more going on in your husbands life then he is letting on, you need to ask him if the two of you can have a serious talk, because his actions is affecting the family! communications is the key to settling all of your problems! Remember one thing, you have to start to think of yourself also, you are important, so take care of you!

Answer 7

you my dear are on here quite abit lately with your hubby...when ya gonna wake up an take some of our advise?

Answer 8

It sounds like he is a jerk. You may just be better off without him.

Answer 9

he stays out all night?
something going on there.

Answer 10

somethings going on......