Ladies - here is my situation:
Both of us are in college - she is 19, I'm 21. We have a class together.
I first met this girl that I like for coffee last Sunday - it was our first meeting outside of class. It was the "typical" first date - each of us asking the other various questions to get to know the other better.
It seemed to go okay - she told me via Facebook afterwards that she liked talking to me, and that she wouldn't mind meeting up again sometime.
I have tried to talk to her after class, make chit-chat, etc, and the problem I have is this: She will answer the questions I ask her and respond to things I bring up in conversation - but she won't talk, initiate conversation, or ask me questions!
This makes me feel awkward, because I am the one doing all of the asking/making all of the effort to talk/keep a conversation going.
How can I make her feel more comfortable/willing to talk to me - I want her to be able to ask me things and talk to me about herself too
2006-10-07
08:10:48
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racing_into_the_future
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Singles & Dating