Family & Relationships - 7 October 2006

Although i am acceptable looking i am shy with girls unless i have had some dutch courage(alcohol) and only meet them in pubs, girls i know say i am nice but that is no consolation.

2006-10-07 08:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by tangerjne 1 in Singles & Dating

bert_haney14@yahoo.... / bert_haney14@hot.....

2006-10-07 08:27:01 · 6 answers · asked by bert_haney14 1 in Friends

What do you do when they are constantly negative. And if you say something is blue it isn't it is teal for example. She has had many issues and been in counseling without much result. She is on anti depressants, which help but she is so negative about that too any suggestions.

2006-10-07 08:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by deb 1 in Family

My ex bf was sweet & caring but he was the one who ended our short relationship. But after he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn and he even invited me to his b-day which was at a club. I went w/ a friend, it was so awkward. He kept coming up to me to talk but I didn't really feel like talking to him, so it seemed like I kinda ignored him. His friend kinda liked me he followed me around and asked lots of questions, my ex got jealous & pushed his friend. Neways, after his b-day he stopped saying hi to me on msn. After 2 months of not talking one day he said hi to me on msn. he thanked me for going to his b-day (too late, I know) and he even said "I didn't mean to ignore you, sorry" then I said to him "its ok, I came so u would know that there's no hard feelings & I thought it was a good way to say bye to u & finally close the book" OK why did he invite me to his b-day? AND why did he apologize when I ignored him?

2006-10-07 08:26:40 · 4 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i make my ex realize that i'll do whatever it takes to be next to her, how can i show that the past is the past to us, me, her another look and chance as i put in so much time and effort for her and i wish that she would give me what i deserve and i want her to be less overwhelmed over little things and how can i make her realize that ignoring problems dont always solve everything

2006-10-07 08:26:33 · 6 answers · asked by for shizzlee 1 in Singles & Dating

ist been 3 saturdays that i called her and either she hangs up on me or her mom tells me she just left. last saturday i did not call her should i call her today or no?

2006-10-07 08:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by EL GANGSTA. 3 in Singles & Dating

or who did you do?
Was is good, bad?
Did you make a lasting memory?
Did it cost ya?

2006-10-07 08:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and freshmen in college and i ran into the guy i had a crush on in 8th grade 6 months ago at my brothers 8th grade graduation his sister is in same grade and well we hit it off and have been dating ever since. We are even considering getting engaged at the end of the year.In 8th grade i was the dork he flirted with and he as mr. popular who all the girls wanted too and did date weird how things worked out we did not even see each other for 4 years. funny how things change? has anyone else had this happen to them???Is 6 months long enough to want to get married or engaged???

2006-10-07 08:24:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok we wnt out one time and i really liked him but when we broke up he said " lifes a bi** its over" he said that the reason we broke up was " that i was to sensitive and that i was obsessive " I really dont know why he said that but then we ended going out again he convinsed me that what he said was no big deal and i needed to get over it... when we went out again things were different he put alot of preshure on me he was always all over me and then at a dance on a boat he said i was his ***** and i got mad and went down stairs and when i turned around he was their and i was in a corner he forced me to talk to him i then called him the next day and broke up with him... later he convinsed me it was all no big deal and i over reacted .. now when i got out with any one he flirts with me and he always ends breaking us up .... now i really dont know what to do... help me....

2006-10-07 08:24:25 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

if things really arnt working out in your marrage and you decide to leave are you a quiter for not staying longer and hoping that they will chang even if you feel in your heart that he wont ever change? What about for better or worse? Who bad do you let things get?

2006-10-07 08:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by kristal930 k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for a florist to handle my wedding flowers next August and was most impressed with Honeystone Flowers at the recent Bridal Show at the DeVos center. Does anyone have a personal experience with them?

2006-10-07 08:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by catalamity 3 in Weddings

DoEs He LiKe Me???
Im 17.. and Im overweight..Guys never flirt with me!!! and the other day I decided I was going to be really outgoing tand smile alot cause people like confident people.....so any ways the day after that I found out that two guys like me...Isnt that strange So give me your opinion...His best friend came up to me during luch and said I think such and such likes you....and not knowing how to take it I was like no he dosent!!! I said why would you say that?? He said he looks at me with love in his eyes..I just blushed.....so any ways we kind of live next to each other and he trys to race me home everyday and if I dont get to the parking lot in time he waits for me....we have last class together everyday and we sit by each other...he walked me out to my of course because it was on the way to his car but he started talking to me about what hes doing this weekend aand what hes doing after school..I like hime alot ! do you think he likes me?would it be wrong for me to ask him out? he is 16 btw

2006-10-07 08:21:52 · 6 answers · asked by ask me a question! 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in a prospective partner? A certain look/sense of humour?

2006-10-07 08:21:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do you like another person to wrap around you and shower you with attention at other times
or just your man to hold you close and keep you safe

2006-10-07 08:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by Sami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-07 08:19:48 · 13 answers · asked by kierajanee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 08:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ronda B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-07 08:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

(with 2 girls) It was over 5 years ago. But how do I get over it? Everytime I look at him thats all I can picture.

2006-10-07 08:18:34 · 26 answers · asked by Krysti 1 in Singles & Dating

Man! Had ANOTHER dream about him again last night. In the dream, he was with me with the understanding he was trying to be with me again -- BUT he was doing his bullshit in the dream ... for example, he got a phone call from some girl and he took it and I was like "WTF? Why would you do that right in front of me?" and he was like "Wow. I've liked her for a long time. cool." This was all similiar behavior to when I saw him last (ex. gawking at every girl that passed and responding to online dating service when I was right in front of him...asshole). So, at least my brain understands that he's horrible and always will be. I just don't know why I can't get it out of my brain to not dream about it anymore. It's been nearly a year now since he showed his 'true colors' and nearly 3 months since it was ended for good. WHY am I still sometimes having dreams about him? It just makes me feel weirdly obsessive the next day. I hate it! When will he leave me subconcious for good?

2006-10-07 08:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im very much in love with my wife and we have had alot of problems and I want to save my marriage. What do you want from a man when it comes to friendship prior to sex. Need commets please.

2006-10-07 08:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by ACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend named ally and she told my "him him" that i was in love with him. i had nothing to do with it and regretted telling her. my friend told me about a conversation she and him had on the phone, and she said that he said i was a spaz and that i scared him. :( i felt so bad! then my friend Calle asked him out for me! and neither of us are allowed to date, not me or him! i had nothing to do with it! i am too shy to bring it up, and now he thinks i lower my standards for boys! and he has such high standards and is sooo admirable.... anyway and he told me that he knew i liked him but then i told my friend that it embarrassed me and she called him up and yelled at him! i really don't know what to do, how to act.... all i know is that i scare him and he doesn't like me back. what do i do? i'm having a really hard time getting over him. and at the same time me old crush wants me back. i don't know what to do. please help me!!!!!!!!

2006-10-07 08:18:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-07 08:18:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a late afternoon wedding, which means that when I get out of the church will be nightime. I want pictures in the gorgeous gazebo in the church park. Obviously have to be taken during the day, What to do? Do I take the pictures before the wedding and let him see me in the dress? I am not supersticious and really dont care, but my mom is freaking out!she says its bad luck

2006-10-07 08:17:49 · 21 answers · asked by Blue 2 in Weddings

Ok first i have alot of guys competeing for me and i think it is really stoupid but i dont want to go out with any of them because i dont want to loose the friendship that i have made with the others and i dont want things to change.... i just dont know what to do...

2006-10-07 08:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley C 2 in Singles & Dating

thanks for the opinion ...i'll wait for her...the matter was i can't accept another lovers in my life...& these scenario getting worse...i really loves her.....please....

2006-10-07 08:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by rachel yue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband did something terrible to me and i changed the locks on yhe door to stop him getting back in i went to the lawyers to get a divorce he has been bugging me to get back with him i told him i dont love him and dont trust him atall but he keeps on do i get back with him i dont know how i fell as he keeps saying sorry what do i do

2006-10-07 08:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and freshmen in college and i ran into the guy i had a crush on in 8th grade 6 months ago at my brothers 8th grade graduation his sister is in same grade and well we hit it off and have been dating ever since. We are even considering getting engaged at the end of the year.In 8th grade i was the dork he flirted with and he as mr. popular who all the girls wanted too and did date weird how things worked out we did not even see each other for 4 years. funny how things change? has anyone else had this happen to them???

2006-10-07 08:16:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 08:16:32 · 12 answers · asked by $AMU*** 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy sends you a message that says 'let me know if you wanna hang out sometime'...what does that mean?

2006-10-07 08:16:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-07 08:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by cherokee 2 in Weddings