Man! Had ANOTHER dream about him again last night. In the dream, he was with me with the understanding he was trying to be with me again -- BUT he was doing his bullshit in the dream ... for example, he got a phone call from some girl and he took it and I was like "WTF? Why would you do that right in front of me?" and he was like "Wow. I've liked her for a long time. cool." This was all similiar behavior to when I saw him last (ex. gawking at every girl that passed and responding to online dating service when I was right in front of him...asshole). So, at least my brain understands that he's horrible and always will be. I just don't know why I can't get it out of my brain to not dream about it anymore. It's been nearly a year now since he showed his 'true colors' and nearly 3 months since it was ended for good. WHY am I still sometimes having dreams about him? It just makes me feel weirdly obsessive the next day. I hate it! When will he leave me subconcious for good?
2006-10-07 08:18:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are thinking too much try and do something else in the day that makes you feel happy and well i hope this makes him go aways in your dreams but i mean may be you still like him and that is why you care so my advice is too "hunt it down and kill it" and it refers to all memory of him not the actual person
2006-10-07 08:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, dreams revolve around you thinking about something. Example: i thing of a girl before fall asleep, i dream about her. If you think it before you fall asleep you dream about it. Just dont think about it. And another important thing, ive done this to girls before, when we (guys) talk about girls in front of another girl, the girl were talking to get jealous. Jealousy can work well for us, it can strengthen a relationship because we expect the girl to pay more attention to us and care about us more if they think that there kinda losing control us. I figured that it usually works the other way and the girl gets pissed... but anyways, he might just be trying to get more attention from you, thats why he was doing it.
2006-10-07 08:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you (that is, if i were in the same sittuatuon with a girl) I would hurry up and find a new girlfriend (boyfriend[this does not mean I'm bisexual]), and have romantic times together so I'll dream about him (or her[onece again, not bisexual).
2006-10-07 08:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't leave b/c u have a hard time letting him go once u et him go he won't be in your dreams anymore thats what happened to me.
2006-10-07 08:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone new in your head. Someone who could have you waking up all exhausted and smiling.
But not me, you wouldn't want me in there stumbling around, you'd be afraid to go to sleep.
2006-10-07 08:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is in your dreams because you had a connection with him. there is nothing you can short of hypnosis to get rid of it. besides that, you have to force yourself into one of those dreams and take control of it.
2006-10-07 08:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋