Ladies - here is my situation:
Both of us are in college - she is 19, I'm 21. We have a class together.
I first met this girl that I like for coffee last Sunday - it was our first meeting outside of class. It was the "typical" first date - each of us asking the other various questions to get to know the other better.
It seemed to go okay - she told me via Facebook afterwards that she liked talking to me, and that she wouldn't mind meeting up again sometime.
I have tried to talk to her after class, make chit-chat, etc, and the problem I have is this: She will answer the questions I ask her and respond to things I bring up in conversation - but she won't talk, initiate conversation, or ask me questions!
This makes me feel awkward, because I am the one doing all of the asking/making all of the effort to talk/keep a conversation going.
How can I make her feel more comfortable/willing to talk to me - I want her to be able to ask me things and talk to me about herself too
2006-10-07 08:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by racing_into_the_future 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be blunt and ask her why she responds to you with short answers.. ask her if you make her uncomfortable during a conversation... let her know you find her adorable if thats the case and see what she says.
2006-10-07 08:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by ARELY G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One question: Is she the quiet type?
If yes, then u have to accept her as she is. Making things more interesting like taking her to places which requires less talking and more of a body language thing.
Like the movies, games, beach.. picnics..fishing..coz wat i know is girls with less vocab, has great body language. U gotta be more aware and appreciative of her movements..
Quiet girls will only open up when u hit the right topic or u click..
that, my friend requires time.. and trust and opening up..
so be patient.. so take her to a place where she can relax that maybe could make her laugh..
more vocal..
And sometimes girls maybe when they like u,they get nervous...
Or they r not used to guys..family no guys or less communication with guys..or shy..
all of this, if u wanna break the ice on it...just make her laugh..
Laughter is the best medicine..
Okay??
Goodluck man
2006-10-07 08:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by kim_stolz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-07 08:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but It doesn't sound like she is interested in you.Time to move on.
2006-10-07 08:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be nervous... if you really like her, bring this issue up to her... she already said she wants to talk to you...
2006-10-07 08:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you could say so wants do you want to talk about today? its your turn to talk.
2006-10-07 08:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest , tell her how you feel :)
2006-10-07 08:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Babylinda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋