I love him, my adored boyfriend, but we always argue about the same thing! Because there is this really popular girl who likes him.
And I think he likes her. What do I do? (Im in 7th grade so no nasty answers please)
2006-10-07 08:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by Elise. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first find out if he REALLY does like her, if so....dump jim before he dumps you...
2006-10-07 08:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by echo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a really good time in your life to consider this point: Why waste your time on someone who is just not into you? Deep inside, isn't your dream to find someone who can't get enough of you, adores you, and has eyes and a heart for no one but you? Of course this is the case. Everyone wants this!
So here is the hard part. You need to value yourself enough to say goodbye to him and wait (and look) for the guy I described above. You have just started with your dating life, so this is a good time to really start doing this.
Remember, in every species in the animal kingdom, it is the female who decides whether she wants the male, not the other way around. The males dance around, showing off so the female will choose them and not the other male. And the males fight over the female. It isn't natural for you, the female to be asking yourself if HE likes you. You should always ask yourself if you like him. And he should chase you, not the other way around.
If he is thinking about another girl, move on. You deserve better and sticking around for someone who is not that into you is just plain unnnatural.
Finally, always trust your gut. That little voice telling you he likes this other girl is your voice of reason. If every woman learned to trust this little voice, no woman would ever make a bad choice again. We always know what is right and wrong because of this voice so first listen to that voice and then act on what it is telling you. Your gut will never steer you in the wrong direction but your heart and brain might.
2006-10-07 15:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by BadSarahBad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young and should enjoy ur life without worrying about any bs... Find a different guy who knows how to treat you the way you want to be treated. If you're constantly arguing then it is a good sign that the relationship isn't working. Just do whatever that makes you happy.
2006-10-07 15:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop arguing about it.
I mean, who cares if she likes him if he's with you?!?
If anything the more you fight about it, the more you are going to push him away, and the more he's going to want to date her.
Just be cool.
2006-10-07 15:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok im in 7th grade, too. Your not in love. you cant be in love. your too young to be in love. Sorry to break it to you.
2006-10-07 15:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did like her and she wants him they would be together!but he still chooses you!so stop being so insecure and start enjoying yourselves rather than wasting your time fighting...
2006-10-07 15:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he really likes you
2006-10-07 15:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by ruby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋