I think my boyfriend is cute sweet and funny but there is one proble . He has been acting wierd should i be worried that he is cheating on me and there has been thousands of rumors that he has been cheating on me. So what should i do or exspect?
2006-10-07 08:05:39 · 16 answers · asked by darkhastychocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Most rumors hold a tiny bit of truth, but it doesn't sound like you have enough evidence to confront him. So just trust him and see what happens.
2006-10-07 08:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it's possible that he's cheating, sit him down, look him square in the eye and ask him straight out, "Have you been cheating on me?" He's probably going to say "no," but how he says it might tell you what you want to know. His eyes might stay locked on yours when he denies it -- or he might immediately look away. He might also stumble through a denial and appear guilty -- or he might seem sincerely shocked that you asked. Bear in mind that this approach isn't foolproof. If you're still not sure after hearing his response, immediately rephrase the question. Try saying it this way: "No, I didn't necessarily mean to ask if you're seeing someone else, but have you been trying to hit on other people?" Then you'll have two different answers to compare in your own mind. To be fair, you will want to honestly ask yourself whether there's a chance that you're just the jealous type. But you also don't want to lie to yourself if it seems that evidence is really starting to mount up against him. Short of actual proof of a relationship with someone else, only you can decide whether or not you believe him. Be strong, and be prepared to accept the outcome if things don't go the way you want them to. This is a big step to take and it could immediately end your relationship. I hope you're wrong about all this, but you might be right.
2006-10-07 15:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Frosty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about if he cheated on you too much.. people see that in your eyes and then that's when the rumors stop.. Maybe he is not ready for a relationship yet.. Just talk to him about whats going on in your relationship? Don't say anything about him cheating because he will get upset that you don't trust him.. Just sit down and talk to him about you guys relationship, and then just tell him if he asks why.. that something just doesn't seem right.. he is acting strange.. good luck!! Don't listen to what others say until it is heard from that person themselves.
2006-10-07 15:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by roxanne c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to catch him in the act. Otherwise, he will just deny it. The next time he's going to a party - send someone to spy on him that he doesn't know. Or get one of your friends to come on to him and see if he will cheat on you. Then you'll have proof and you can dump him. Remember the old saying........"where's there smoke, there is fire". If you think he's acting weird and people say he's cheating on you, then he probably is. Do NOT be afraid to be alone.
2006-10-07 15:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by ggirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck.....yeah! well you get the idea. If you supect him of it and ppl are talking maybe you should do something about it. There might me some truth to the rumors so don't be surprised and brace yourself for the truth whatever it maybe.
2006-10-07 15:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Adriana27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all relationships is like that, but if every one says he is cheating on you that doesn't mean he is, i mean half the time rumors are lies. true love is about trust, companion and its something that lasts forever. but if you think your boyfriend has nothing like that then its not LOVE! keep asking him wats going on and ask him alot of questions about you guys, but if he don't care, well mabey he is cheating or tiered.
2006-10-07 15:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by miss kiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how exactly does he "act" weird....? If he's acting weird by like whenever you ask him to hang out...he pauses and says i have something else to do...or does he not hang out with you as much as he did befor----Then...sorry but your best bet is to get rid of this guy is a cheater
Now if he's acting weird by being shy or anything like that....it's probably a best bet that he isnt cheating...but he just doesnt know whaty to say around you
trust me about this stuff...i've had it happen to me many times:]
2006-10-07 15:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.
Check out the body language for any lies.
It may not be that he is cheating just that he isn't hung up on you any more and doesn't know how to break it off.
2006-10-07 15:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule # 1 guys always lie, so if you ask him dont expect him to tell you the truth, and if you sense it (women intuition) then it probably is true, no offense, but try to talk to him about it, and you you do feel it is true try to get proof, and if it is true move on life is to short and precious to waste on bad people!!
2006-10-07 15:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about his behavior, before you jump to conclusions. Never believe what other people say about him. Get the facts from he in person.
2006-10-07 15:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by Meighan L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋