but he's now going out with my friend since preschool. should i tell her how i feel or should i tell her it's ok?
2006-10-07 08:09:08 · 12 answers · asked by anticonformity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, this is gonna be a tough decision. If you wanna be honest, tell her how you feel, but be prepared for the consequences. Wait for the right moment to do this, and don't make her feel she has to break up with her boyfriend.
2006-10-07 08:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro's befor Hoe's! Stay true to your friend and don't jeapordize your long friendship for a dude. Tell her how you really feel and let her know that's why you would rather let them have time together without you around for the time being. If she's a good friend to you wish her the best and be happy she's happy- and don't get involved in their relationship. Oherwise everyone will feel wierd and that's not cool.
2006-10-07 15:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hollygood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask your friend how she feels about him: is it serious between them or are they just casual friends. If they are just being friends and she knows you are interested in him then she would be the best person to introduce you to him and see if he is interested in you, as well. In this way you are being honest with your friend and should a relationship develop between you and this guy, then you would not be jeopardizing your friendship with your longtime, childhood friend and it would eliminate the awkwardness of trying to get this guy's attention in the first place. That is just my opinion based on the belief that all relationships should be based on truthfulness and honesty, for without that, you are only headed for disaster.
2006-10-07 15:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by moonshadow79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel now, because she may find out latter and that will lead to problems with your friendship later, she could acuse you of trying to break them up, or that youre trying to steal him from her, it happened to me before, so just be honest now and explain to her what your friendship means to you and that you dont want a guy to come in between you. Because we all know that "Guys come and go, FRIENDSHIPS last forever!"
If she is a real true friend to you she'll understand.
2006-10-07 15:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend I'm sure you can tell her anything. It actually depends what kind of person she is does she get upset easilly or does she not care. If she gets upset don't worry then shes probably not worth being a friend. That's just my advice. Your her friend flow your heart.
2006-10-07 15:13:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of it. Don't tell her you like him too. How do you think that would make her feel? Be supportive of her.
2006-10-07 15:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Pat K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a toughie! If you tell her things will be ackward when you all hang out or when she wants to brag about something sweet he did.
2006-10-07 15:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by GiR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her and explain how you feel and talk back and forth with your friend until you agree on something
2006-10-07 15:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by x2x2c1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on,he's takin,your friend will probably be your friend for alot longer,don't jeprodise that.Thats up to you though,good luck
2006-10-07 15:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you she just tell her
2006-10-07 15:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋