Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

I have this wild jealousy thing going on. He has no idea, but sometimes it actually makes me have major sick feelings in the pit of my stomach. This usually happens when we are out and there are hot women around and he might make comments about them to me, also, he has even gone as far as saying he wants to bang this one movie actress, but, it is just something in his head and he knows it will never happen. I want to be cool with him, just looking, and his fantasy's, but for some reason, it makes my blood boil. How does one over come these distructive feelings? I'm really working on it, but haven't had much success. HELP! Any advise will be better than nothing. I have to say, that my boyfriend is devoted to me and very committed to our relationship. He does everything for me! Is he just a normal guy? I have been out of the loop for very long, being a wife and mother, then getting a divorce , 4 mth break, then met my bf, its been one yr. now. Our sex life is hot, STILL!

2006-10-04 06:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by darkangel 1 in Singles & Dating

can you get past the pain that is stubble rash?

2006-10-04 06:48:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 06:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by motown 1 in Singles & Dating

how do I know which ones sincerely like me, and which ones just want to have sex with me?

2006-10-04 06:47:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have any of you guys ever been with someone that you are in love with, but didn't call them your girlfriend? is it normal for guys to not want to date you, but spend almost everyday/night with you and say he loves you, but will not call you his girlfriend. i guess i don't get it will someone please explain this to me!

2006-10-04 06:47:50 · 3 answers · asked by puppy love 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 06:47:06 · 8 answers · asked by Love Freely 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 06:47:03 · 16 answers · asked by Garmonbozia 2 in Friends

2006-10-04 06:46:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My brother died in a car crash one year ago. I've had counselling, I've tried to recognize the stages of grief... I've allowed time for healing... I just can't get out of the habit of imagining him alive... When does this become not normal? Is it too soon? Is it normal if I CHOOSE to do this instead of remembering everyday that he went through a windshield? I know he is dead. I just want to heal softer...The reality is so harsh it makes me colapse in sorrow.

2006-10-04 06:45:02 · 12 answers · asked by Deactivate account 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so today when I was walking, I passed the guy I like. At that hour, I usually don't see him..and if I do..I wait until afterschool to say Hi. But today while I was walking by..he looked at me so I said Hi. He said something but I couldn't hear. But anyways..he had this look on his face..Idk what kind..maybe just serious or possibly ever-so-slightly pissed.
I'm pretty sure I've done absolutely nothing to make him upset..but what if he doesn't like me saying Hi to him when I see him. I don't know...
We've talked before..and I was just going to talk to him for a second once..and he opted for a longer convo.
But Idk..do you think he doesn't like me saying Hi orr.....what?
what are your opinions?

2006-10-04 06:44:16 · 7 answers · asked by Addie [♦] 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently read a book by Mitch Albom in which he says: "Every life has a one true-love snapshot", and it got me thinking.
I do believe it is true, my snapshot is the moment when my now husband was driving us back from the movies (while we skipped a class in College) and we both started singing the song on the radio...something clicked just then and I knew I was in the face of true love.
If you do believe it is true, what is your snapshot?

2006-10-04 06:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by White 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 06:43:12 · 5 answers · asked by answergurl 1 in Singles & Dating

As men are sex maniac..i want to know that girls are sex maniac too or not?

2006-10-04 06:41:07 · 3 answers · asked by MIgnight HUG 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I just wonder if I have lived life the best way I could. I think about all the people who have come and gone throughout my life. I hope I have touched the lives of some, as much as some have touched mine !

2006-10-04 06:40:18 · 5 answers · asked by turbietech 4 in Friends

I am curious. In your current or most recent relationship, how long did it take the guy (or you, if you're a guy) to say "I love you"? I know most men are commitment phobic, but why is saying it such a big deal if you feel that way?

2006-10-04 06:40:18 · 28 answers · asked by T.G. 6 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering how can you when someone's heart. I was with this person that said he didn't love me but cared for me. I loved him and realize I still care for him now. He's ver superficial, he likes long hair, fake nails..... Things like that. We aren't even friends at this point and I just want to remind him of what he was missing and lost, how should I go about doing it?

2006-10-04 06:39:35 · 11 answers · asked by nicoleari 1 in Singles & Dating

My freind introduced me to him and I met him in chicago 2 months ago. I am in san francisco. I ask him sometimes to come here and visit but he dont say any thing the only thing he will tell me that he can pay my ticket If I want to come. He also told me He's not ready for any comitment yet but he'll may be if we see each other again. He alos calls me a lot a lot during the day and tells me he likes me. When sometime I dont call him back he gets upset. He also ask me to come with him on the tour to london. I told him my family will not allow me to do that and you should comeover. I want to know what is in his mind?

2006-10-04 06:39:28 · 7 answers · asked by Alisha 2 in Singles & Dating

This questions is more for men obviously. Am I the only one who prefers this? I am just wondering I can't be the only guy can I? Before anyone starts pratonising me saying I'll die old and alone eventually in my old age It doesn't bother me I like being on my own and have no problems with it in any way. So leave it out yeah. I am not affraid of "commitment" either I just plain don't want to be tied down ever because I love my own space too much and feel happy with my own company and have donesince my childhood. I also am not a needy person at all and I honestly have never had a wanting to be a dad I still don't and I felt like this since I was 14! so I feel I shouldn't have to change after all it's my life and I am the only one who will be living it not my family, friends, etc. Anyone else plan on living as a bachelor like me? I am 21 so I am fairly young I guess but I am also old enough to know this is what I want I don't change my mind easily on these things either.

Thanks

2006-10-04 06:39:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 06:38:19 · 24 answers · asked by answergurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex hav agreed to be friends.He is 18 and im 16.We were together for a year and a half. I dont think it will develope into anything again even though i wish it could. I was not a bad girlfriend to him but he says i took advantage of him and always got my way. I am sure i wasnt that bad i cared and loved him alot. Well a week after he split with me he went out with a friend and he pulled a girl who is 20yrs old and has a kid. Ever since she got his number and they have been txtin eachother alot. He says to me he doesnt like her in that way and he doesnt want to get involved with anyone. He also said he wouldnt get involved with someone with a child of their own. I know its out of my control what he does but im scared hes going to sleep with her and he does like her. We hav been split for three weeks. He claims he isnt going anywhere but we are friends and thats it. what shall i think? He is going to a gathering that i am going to how should iact i cant keep chasing him help me

2006-10-04 06:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by moi 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is very nice to me, but he doesn't make me feel good about myself. Yes, I am a little insecure, just like the majority of females, so it would really really help if he gave me some compliments to let me know that he's attracted to me, especially when we're in bed. Lack of compliments + his compliments about other women gets me down a little. I'm no Playboy model, but I'm a cute girl and proud of who I am.

Does anyone feel the same / similar?

2006-10-04 06:37:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 06:35:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just having a dilemma...Watching brother play golf for the first time in his life could be mildly amusing....but golf is a bit dull isn't it!? Or I could go to Manchester and shop in Aflecks Palace and spend money I don't really have. Hmmm...I'll do majority verdict!!

2006-10-04 06:35:19 · 13 answers · asked by nerdy_grrlie 2 in Family

what makes me sad is suspension of account and you??????

2006-10-04 06:35:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what can i do to make my marriage last? it seems like its drifting away and i really love my husband but it seems like we do the same borning stuff all the time and it doesnt feel like the love is there anymore ....i dont wanna get a divorce because the pain is soo hard to go through when u know that one person for so long

2006-10-04 06:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 06:34:24 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriends are taking me to stay in a haunted hotel for my bachlorette party this weekend. We are going to try to commune with the ghosts in the hotel using an Ouija board. We are doing this mostly just for fun, but will be happily surprised if we find that ghost are real. Do you all have any suggestions on what kinds of questions to ask the "ghosts"? Please nothing crude or immature. I want this to be fun for us and you all answering. Thanks!!
P.S. No we are not witches or devil worshipers so you know... Just looking to have a little spooky fun! Before you say Ouija boards are evil... I got mine at Toys R Us. So unless some little "devil child" or a "witchy toy store clerk "put a curse on it, I am sure it is fine.

2006-10-04 06:33:34 · 15 answers · asked by Pren 3 in Weddings

so this guy he said hes really atrcted 2 me sexually and hes comin over how do i get him horny

2006-10-04 06:33:22 · 7 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend of 4 years and I have fallen out of love with him, cause I have fallen inlove with someone else. I have told my boyfriend of 4 years that I was seeing someone else and was falling inlove with this other guy. ( I like to be honest even if it hurts) But he says he will not leave me and whenever he sees me with the other one he will kill him. I know advice will probably to go to the police but since i feel responsible I don't want to go to that extreme. Please advice me I am scared and don't know what to do.

2006-10-04 06:32:46 · 14 answers · asked by Solitaire 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 06:32:00 · 21 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Other - Family & Relationships