My boyfriend is very nice to me, but he doesn't make me feel good about myself. Yes, I am a little insecure, just like the majority of females, so it would really really help if he gave me some compliments to let me know that he's attracted to me, especially when we're in bed. Lack of compliments + his compliments about other women gets me down a little. I'm no Playboy model, but I'm a cute girl and proud of who I am.
Does anyone feel the same / similar?
2006-10-04 06:37:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, good for you! We should all know that we are worthy. Yes, all of us have our insecurities and our boyfriends are supposed to diminish that. My fiancee is wonderful to me.. He makes me feel good even on my worst days. Maybe tell your boyfriend that you don't appreciate that he validates other women and not you. Ask how he would feel if you did the same to him about other men. If he does not change, then I think that maybe he doesn't deserve someone nice. Some men do this because they themselves do not feel good about themselves....
2006-10-04 06:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I'm in the same damm situation! lol. My bf is extremely nice to me, but its sad cuz he doesn't compliment me most of the time. I says girls are cute or hot on tv, and that does get us down. I really don't know why.. unless their insecure about themselves. I truly believe there are guys out there that are so open about making girls feel great.. compliments, roses, saying how much they love us.
2006-10-04 06:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i was in a few relationships that the guy would say harsh things about me and it really lowered my self-esteem. so i think you should talk to him and try to tell him how you feel about the way he treats you and if he isnt willing to change then you need to break up with him. I am in a good relationship right now...like everytime i put myself down he always compliments me and tries to make me feel better. you need to find a guy that is willing to compliment you and not put you down so talk to him for now. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 06:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be nice to be given compliments once in a while. i know how you feel. but don't let any man make you insecure about yourself, it's not worth it. if you are proud of you that is awesome stay that way and don't ever let anyone make you feel different.
2006-10-04 06:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you say that you are proud of who you are but on the same note you say that you are insecure. i am confused. and then you say he is very nice to you but he doesn't make you feel good about yourself. i mean you may be over exagerating. have you talked to him about it? my guess is that you haven't. Men can't read minds. and they can't know what is wrong with you by things that you do. you have to tell them. if after you tell him and he is still the same it may be time to move on. that is if you are not married. my husband comments on other women but at the same time so do i and i'm the one that got him so there's my security right there
2006-10-04 06:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by mdbdyot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine we are all diverse and all adult adult males like diverse issues. embody the body you've. Make it furnish you with the outcomes you want! And look on the brilliant aspect, no again soreness for you..fortunate! lol you do not choose an hour glass figure and massive round breasts to be captivating or to charm to adult adult males. you're below no circumstances extraordinary for feeling the way you sense, it really is organic to make certain on to look a quite some way highly at the same time as society tries to make a particular body form the "norm" or "commonplace elegance". only sense free with what you've and once you stumble on that difficult to do precisely remind your self, someone someplace- even possibly interior an same room- would KILL to have your body. =)
2016-11-26 02:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by rhoat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel proud to be YOU! No matter what, its YOUR self-esteem and how YOU feel about YOURSELF! Dont let men get you down...... men dont compliment women unless the relationship is new or they want something from you! Tell him how you feel about him talking about other women infront of you..or..tell him to save it for when hes with his friends!
hope that helps
2006-10-04 06:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend makes me feel so good about myself. I feel like I'm floating in thin air when I'm with him. If your boyfriend doesn't make you feel good then you should tell him. No one should make you feel that way. Just tell him that he needs to start giving you compliments.
2006-10-04 06:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by pinkeydots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes me to .ive noticed that some can bring out the good in you and others can bring out the bad. well i have one that brings out my worst. i hate him very much but he wont leave b/c i have his daughter which is being used as a weapon as far as he goes. keep being proud of your cute self and maybe look for some positive attention in someone elses arms.and ill practice what i preach.
2006-10-04 06:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly whole-heartedly don't think there's anyone else in this world that could make me feel better about myself than he does.
Don't be with anyone that doesn't make you feel like a princess.
2006-10-04 06:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋