My mom just died what should i do?

Answer 1

You will need time to grieve. I suggest to go and talk to family members, friends, a counsellor, or someone else you can trust. It helps to talk about it, believe me. The more you get it out the sooner you will start to heal inside and out. Allow yourself to cry and grieve, and once you've done that i'd go and talk to someone that you can trust. I am sorry to hear that. Please take time out to grieve and cry, and always keep her alive by celebrateing her life, get on with your life, talk about her, and keep her memories alive. Have her picture with you all the time and I found out that talking always makes things better.

Answer 2

First of all, I am so sorry to hear that. please accept my sympathy. The only person I have is my mom for my dad died when I just turned 18. That was almost 11 years ago. I have to tell you it is hard to do, but you just have to find your own way of dealing with it (rather if that is talking with your best friend or to family member, but not to where you don't want to come out into the world) and after you deal with the fact that it all happened, then your next move is to try to move on forward and do what every parent wants for their child to have, happiness and to do better then they could when they were your age, and do just that everyday for the rest of the days that you have left so that way when and if you have kids or if you have kids you can pass that down and be able to tell your child how great of a person their grandparent was when they were here. Just keep your mom in your heart and you will never have to worry about her leaving you again and keep your memories of her and they will never go away. Hang in there. If you feel like you need to talk more, then use my picture profile and email me if you like.

Answer 3

Let out all of your frustration, anger, sadness. Dont bottle it up.
You need to be strong enough to help with the arrangements for the funeral, the obituary in the paper. If you contact the funeral home you want to have the funeral at, they will walk you step by step on what you need to do. They also help with the obituary, the person to do her hair and make-up, and they will take things slow to help you adjust.

You are going to have some decisions come your way and you need to be strong and present for them. You will need to contact the cemetary (if she is not cremated and does not have a burial plot) to get a price on the plot and where the plot would be.

I actually moved away for about a year before she passed. It took a lot of time to get used to the fact she would not call and I would not see her when I came to visit. I think what helped me the most was being able to go back to my home and away from my hometown.. where all the memories were of her. It has been 3 years now and I am still not over the death.
I wont say that you will ever get over it. But you will learn to cope with it in time. (my mom and I were like sisters) Just let out your cries and anger anytime you feel like it. Dont bottle them in.

My mom died 3 years ago. A sudden unexpected death. (I talked to her that morning. she died a few hours later) She had a blod clot and we did not know.

Answer 4

I am very sorry to hear that. My mother in law died last Feb. Grieving is part of the process, also it may be hard now but try to think of all the good times, all the things she has told you over the years, take it one day at a time. The grieving you feel for your Mom may always be with you but it will get easier with time. Remember she wanted you to be happy, and have a good life. I hope you are OK. My family sends you our condolences.

Answer 5

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. You don't say how old you are, so what you do may depend on your age. I would contact the folks you lean on in tough times, perhaps find a support group or clergy person to speak with and continue to speak with the rest of your family.

Answer 6

You should just think that she is with god and that life has to go on. I kinda know how you feel bacause my lil' 12 year cousin just got killed by a lame bia** a week ago.. You just have to let go of her ...It sucks I am sorry 4 what has happend to you..I wish you can at least try to get over your mothers death. Let her rest in peace like I am to my Primito aka cousin.
Wish u the best in life and remember life goes on and things happen 4 a reason.
*~*~*~LAPRINCESSLALA*~*~*

Answer 7

I am sorry that you lost her this way. I know that it is not easy at all. Hope you have a good dad to be there for you. Life can be difficult sometimes! Hang in there and try to make the best of your life!

Answer 8

My father died in 2000, so I know how you feel. Hang in there, it does get better, one day at a time. Sorry for your loss.

Answer 9

I'm so sorry. I lost my mother to cancer in 2003 so I know how you feel.

There really isn't anything you can do but let yourself go through the mourning. Cry, go to the funeral, spend time with your family and loved ones. Let yourself mourn the loss.

It does get better. I only takes time.

Answer 10

You didn't state your age, and, since people react differently at different ages and need different types of help, my best advice is to give yourself time to grieve...hook up with a Hospice organization. They have the absolute best programs for helping folks deal with death.
So sorry for your loss...