Family & Relationships - 1 October 2006

I have a niece who has 4 kids & never wants to contribute food or anything else at our family gatherings. Her mom is my sister and maybe she feels since her mom brings in a dish each time, this lets her off the hook. Personally I feel when u have 4 mouths to feed not counting your own, you shouldn't have to be told to bring anything. It should come natural.

2006-10-01 14:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by Boo 2 in Family

I am a cashier at a huge store and there is a boy that I like who is a cashier as well.I really like him, he reminds me of my ex-boyfriend so much who I miss ridiculously, and to top it off I met my ex in this same type of store which I transferred from to this one 4 mos. ago. He is so sweet to me all the time, he always goes out of his way to speak to me even though I try and avoid him because when I see him I smile like a kid in a freakin candy store, and I am so very shy around him. The Problem: The store I transferred from had a boy that I liked there as well, and who I thought liked me, but when I made the first move....giving him my number to call me, the next day I come in to work all of the people in my area had gotten wind of it and were making fun of me...and even the boy had nothing to say to me and he never spoke to me again. That really hurt me and shook my confidence...so I was wondering should I let this new guy at my new store know how I feel, or should I keep quiet?

2006-10-01 14:43:56 · 12 answers · asked by sosogogo 1 in Singles & Dating

and at home. when i am not at work he seems to care why i was not there. he asks bout my kids and how the foot ball games went and cheering .

2006-10-01 14:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by countygal 1 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like preppy, girly girls, or tomboys?? Sometimes I wonder..

2006-10-01 14:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK I've joined this website, and am having lots of interest from gorgeous guys, on average 20 years younger than me. I've had numerous people go on about personality and experience, but I REALLY have wrinkles and bulges. How can they possibly want to sleep with me? If they see me in real life they will run a mile!

2006-10-01 14:41:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 14:39:30 · 18 answers · asked by Ms Tracey Lyn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just curios

2006-10-01 14:38:22 · 19 answers · asked by Angelika 2 in Singles & Dating

A job?
A cool car?
Sensative?
Caring?
Well-mannered?
A rebel?
Let me know, I really want to know.

2006-10-01 14:38:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf says the only way we can stay together is if I lighten up and let him masterbate to porn however much he wants. So the question is.. how do I keep from getting mad and how do I lighten up?

2006-10-01 14:38:02 · 4 answers · asked by lilredthetease 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-01 14:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by Emma G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 14:37:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Physically mentally &motionally everythg was perfect up until (3?) wks ago He began 2hangout dailyyyy w/1 aquantince of his &his gf At first wanted 2allow him space w/his friends but never imaged theyd take much or much less mytime2 W/in days he referred 2them best buddies treated them as such &spent time w/them as such Ive only seen him 3 times in 3wks He still shows initiative &desire 2see &b w/me but in b/w seeing each other there r those moments that i feel somethg missing &yet dont know how to figure out wut 'it' is We love each other deeply. thats undeniable! so i feel confused but rnt sure about what exactly To complicate thgs even+ Yest he moved in w/them Me not a fan of the situation or them Im afraid ill have even less time w/him R that ill finally burst my jealous bubble &send him runnin Ive stated my disapproval for his movin in w/em He aknowledged it but willnot movebak w/parents IS IT TIME TO MOVE ON OR JUST SCARED? HOW BEST DO I HANDLE THIS W/O AFFECTING COLLEGE PRIORITY

2006-10-01 14:37:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes I know this makes me seem like a total *****, but I just can't pretend to like this guy any more. I care for him but I just don't like him the way he likes me. We have been together for about three weeks now and he seems to take it real serious. I want to stop it ASAP but I don't know how. I really don't want him to hurt as bad as he might if I do it too harsh. Ok he has an ex that is really in love with him so she thought she could make him jealous by going out with his best friend and it didn't work he’s to caught up on me and his friend and him still talk. She is really bitchy about it all, it doesn't scare me but it's to much. He is too immature and we have nothing in common, please help me on how to get rid of him for good with out hurting him too bad

2006-10-01 14:37:00 · 12 answers · asked by I <3 Leone 2 in Singles & Dating

i think that you are a really sweet person and kind and i think that you are a really great friend and your the only sane person in mr clarks class

2006-10-01 14:36:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 14:35:38 · 5 answers · asked by jaime s 1 in Friends

Well, my bf and I have been going out about a year now and he doesn't talk to me as much as he used to. He even told me he felt like everybody hated him and he couldn't attract any other girls. I got mad when he said that I cared for him. Then a few days later I told him I wanted to break up and we did, but then like 2 weeks later he was asking me to be his gurl again and the thing is I still loved him but I just thought it would be best if we would break up cause I don't want to feel unappreciated anymore. So I said ok like a dumb *** and now he just ignores me sometimes but doesn't ever break up with me. What do I do??

2006-10-01 14:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♠Steffy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my boyfriend and i just go into french kissing but i find the experiance kinda gross becuase he gets really slobbery and goes way to fast...do you guys have any advice on how i can spice our kisses up a bit and make things interesting. and how to control him a bit when making out without actually telling him that he's abd at it?

2006-10-01 14:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if its true but apparently short men and women are considered to be very unnattractive.

2006-10-01 14:34:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anybody else do this?

2006-10-01 14:33:50 · 20 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf says the only way we can stay together is if I lighten up and let him look at porn however much he wants. So the question is.. how do I keep from getting mad and how do I lighten up?

2006-10-01 14:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by lilredthetease 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

At tha moment I'm really confussed I mean at one point I really hard strong passionate love for my boyfriend and we were so determined that we would spend that rest of our days together but being so young we never stop to think that we have our whole lives ahead of us. For some reason i feel different now I mean it could be because were tryna make our lond distance relationship work and that is really hard for that both of us. yes i do love him but I dont feel as strong as I do what is happening to me? I'm confussed cuz I still want that man to be in my life.

2006-10-01 14:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by ~Tranell~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i started talking to this guy today

he seems really cool
he's nice funny cute
i got his age before we started talking

he only asked one question that seemed inappropriate but he said it was ok not to answer

should i still talk to him

i do like him

2006-10-01 14:33:04 · 3 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There was this guy I liked last year, and he liked me back....

We hooked up and then started dating, but after we started dating he was a jerk to me! He was sweet when he was trying to get me to go out with him, but after we did he was a jaska**!!
He started saying I was fliriting with every other guy, and he started calling me "his girl"! It was annoying!
Why did that happen?? The same thing is happening to my friend now with another guy!

2006-10-01 14:32:42 · 12 answers · asked by Kitsch Nouveau; 2 in Singles & Dating

Last week I mistakenly placed the cat in the deep freeze (its a long story).I was afraid to tell my wife so I tied a string around his little tail(clear string) and I will tug on it sometimes and when she isn"t looking I place him in other places (so she thinks hes getting up and walking. the room air freshner works good,but his little body is withering away and shes going to catch on.

2006-10-01 14:32:23 · 23 answers · asked by steve b 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a relationship that seems difficult ..And throughout time, I see that it might not work after all ..My gf told me that she has a friend who use to go out with her these days ...I think she sees that I am no longer being staisfied of the relationship and is trying to find a way to switch to someone else ..and you know what I am no longer jealous ..I think I would wish that so that I can have a reason to break off ..!!
is it a good thing you think ?

2006-10-01 14:31:29 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 14:31:21 · 19 answers · asked by BaBy PopN' 2 in Singles & Dating

There was this guy that I used to work which i don't anymore because I decided to go back to college. Well the point that I'm getting to is that I liked him alot and he seems to feel the same I think. Just from what i noticed about him. What do I do? do I tell him how i feel about him or do I just keep it low and be friends and see where it takes us. we are close friends even out of work. But the other think thats keeping be from telling him and I guess how hes feeling to is this one lady at work who works with him they are close as well. He tells her everything and she has a big mouth, telling peoples secerts and stuff. She asked me if I like him bit I told her no. Should I have told? The only thing was I didn't want it to get around the office at the time and I was a bit affraid. What should I do. Should I still tell him how i feel about him now?

2006-10-01 14:29:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this guy a while ago and after a while we broke up. We were best friends before our relationship. He stopped talking to me and I missed hanging out with him. I tried working it out with him but nothing seemed to work. He recently started talking to me again. I was really happy. Then he asked me out again. He tells me he still loves me and everything. I don't want to say yes. He bought me an expensive gift and everything. How can I reject him and still be friends?

2006-10-01 14:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Morgan<3 3 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, I also get turned on by men

2006-10-01 14:29:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-01 14:28:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating