At tha moment I'm really confussed I mean at one point I really hard strong passionate love for my boyfriend and we were so determined that we would spend that rest of our days together but being so young we never stop to think that we have our whole lives ahead of us. For some reason i feel different now I mean it could be because were tryna make our lond distance relationship work and that is really hard for that both of us. yes i do love him but I dont feel as strong as I do what is happening to me? I'm confussed cuz I still want that man to be in my life.
2006-10-01 14:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by ~Tranell~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have been in two long distance relationships before and they are very tough on both sides.
For one, if you two are meant to be together, than you will be. True love doesn't just dissapear.
You two should discuss things together, can you see him in your future? Can he see you in his? What do you want to do with the rest of your lives? If you two talk about your future, and plan together, it can bring a lot of fun into the relationship as well as the feeling of "forever".
Just because you don't have that falling head over heels beginning of a relationship feeling all the time doesn't mean that he's not the one. My bf and I have a downtimes where we may argue. But every once and a while, sometimes just thinking of him, I will get that butterflies in my stomach, heart fluttering feeling come over me, and everything is like new again.
Plan a surprise, send him an ecard, or order flowers sent to him. Do something special just to remind him of why he fell in love with you in the first place. And see if he does the same.
I hope that everything works out between you two!
2006-10-01 14:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by short n sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard to maintain a long distance relationship. if the love is there ans you really want it to work, it can. it isn't easy, but it will work out in the long run. however, you sound like you have already started to waiver a little bit. good for you for at least seeing that you do still have a whole life in front of you. only time will tell if you are supposed to be together.
2006-10-01 21:37:02 · answer #2 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just phases of love that u r going through...at first love is hot and heart fluttering and all that...now u have a long distant relationshp its cooling off but when u see each other then it will be on again.... plus over time that sensation changes to a mellow feeling that u have whenever u see your peeps...and kno that he is there for u at all times..as long as you feel good thinking about him and you both trust and believe in eash other... then u will be ok..keep love strong...n stay true...
2006-10-01 21:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the right questions and searching deep in your feelings.
To thy own self be true.
Good luck..
2006-10-01 21:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep the home fires burning for awhile yet.but long distance is hard on love.
2006-10-01 21:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by lcayote 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him and be honest with him and with urself and do what ever will make you happier in the long run.
2006-10-01 21:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Emma G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationship? although other works but only a few....
2006-10-01 21:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart.....and do what makes you happy.
2006-10-01 21:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋