Well, my bf and I have been going out about a year now and he doesn't talk to me as much as he used to. He even told me he felt like everybody hated him and he couldn't attract any other girls. I got mad when he said that I cared for him. Then a few days later I told him I wanted to break up and we did, but then like 2 weeks later he was asking me to be his gurl again and the thing is I still loved him but I just thought it would be best if we would break up cause I don't want to feel unappreciated anymore. So I said ok like a dumb *** and now he just ignores me sometimes but doesn't ever break up with me. What do I do??
2006-10-01 14:35:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♠Steffy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he just wants some attention. You mentioned that he thinks everyone hates him...maybe he just feels lonely. He probably thought that breaking up with you will enable him to find someone else to make him feel wanted, but realized that YOU are the one that loves him so just decided to go back to you.
Guys can't express their feelings very well like women so they just start to act different (sorry guys, but that's how i see it) women have to see thru that and be the one to comfort her man sometimes. if you're strong enough to deal with it, i say just try and talk to him about HIM and let him know you're there for him. Otherwise, let him find someone that can handle his sensitivity.
2006-10-04 09:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Arrrrrggggg! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me.. it just shows that you need to become the "enforcer" meaning you have to take lead and let him know where you stands.. baby it's either we do this this and this and that or I'm out.. you shouldn't be no doormat for no one... stand up and become a door.. it's up to you whether or not you let HIM come in... so you shouldn't move on you should stand up and talk if he ain't up for it.. than move on I know it's going to be hard but that's why I use that had the last idea.. good luck...
2006-10-01 21:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by latasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he toatlly dosent want uhe just dosent want to be seen with no gurl just tryin not to get teased dump him if he treatin u like that i mean i would just dump him and forget him imean it i would be wayover him i mean it you should be over him. not to be ean just be dumping him and forget him
2006-10-01 21:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by jj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop that foo! if he's gonna just be a $#!T after you break up then he's not good enough for you anyway
2006-10-01 21:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by marshall s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you dont need that he'll have you wrapped around his finger if u do
2006-10-01 21:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and find someone better.....ok
2006-10-01 21:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋