Family & Relationships - 29 September 2006

I am a high school student and I don't have friends. I'm not nerdy or ugly, but I just plain don't have friends. What can I do to make new friends? I know that everyone says be yourself and people will like you. The only problem is, I don't know how to be myself around people I don't know. I don't know what to talk about or what to say to people when they talk to me. What can I do?

2006-09-29 11:30:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a friend at school and we've been best friends ever since she moved here. but lately this year, she hasnt talked to me at all and she's only been talking to a girl we used to say we hated. ive tried talking to her and she said she wasnt mad at me and wasnt doing it on purpose, but then , just like before, she still didnt talk to me. wat do i do?

2006-09-29 11:29:04 · 3 answers · asked by J.J J 1 in Friends

Guys would you ever use a girl just for sex? I heard SOME guys use a girl just to "release" some sexual tension, in other words, using a girl that they don't really care about as a sperm depository?, I'm not guy-bashing, I know some girls use guys too, but guys love sex more and some would say anything to get laid.

I'm a girl who's saving sex for marriage cuz I would never want any guy to use me, like how I've seen other girls get hurt and used.

2006-09-29 11:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend finds it wrong that i ask "what friend"...he feels that i shouldn't ask...and if i do...its because im insecure.

2006-09-29 11:28:15 · 22 answers · asked by lb_angel80 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 11:27:34 · 25 answers · asked by Daniela 2 in Singles & Dating

Help me I am SSOOOOO Bored, what can I do?
I am now officially sick of being unemployed. I can actually feel the grey matter rotting. Can anyone give me some ideas on what to do? i have so far played all computer games availabel, read every book, watched every dvd, cleaned the house a few dozen times, aplly for work, write stories, shop online, scan dating websites, go food shopping, etc. I'm running out of ideas. What can I do that is cheap.
Any employers on here from the Wiltshire area looking for staff IM me now. Anyone decides to tell me to go get a job and I swear I will lose my rag. So don't say it.

2006-09-29 11:27:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

You know, the ones with the backpacks.

2006-09-29 11:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by MЯ BAIT™ 6 in Singles & Dating

Like in birds? I don't even like birds. If fact I hate birds. Unless I'm eating them. Or does she mean like in eating? Of course my wife swallows. Where else would all that food and liquid go? Out her ears? Maybe, but I think I would have noticed. What's wrong with her. And she winked when she said it. So what am I to think?

2006-09-29 11:26:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-29 11:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just broke up with my boyfriend of three years...
I'm looking for some songs about breaking up...
Preferably sung by a female.

I like a song by michelle branch, goodbye to you. I also like chris brown's say goodbye. I'm looking for something along the same lines

2006-09-29 11:25:54 · 7 answers · asked by ღஜAidaஜღ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 11:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 11:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Singles & Dating

I love my bf and he loves me very much. We've only been dating for 2 months. I love kissing him and I love being with him but sex is kinda bad. I think it's because we have no chemistry. So after a big fight, he wants to know if I love him as a friend or as more than a friend and do I wanna still be with him. I don't know what to do. I do love him but I don't know what kind of love it is. It hurts me to see him so hurt. Should I stay with him?
P.S. If we break up he doesn't even want to stay friends.

2006-09-29 11:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by ozo2004 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

as you get older you lose your hair, what would you do? just shave it all? or wear a piece? or transplant?

2006-09-29 11:20:55 · 20 answers · asked by sure_whatever_29 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 17 years and all my husband does is tell me how i have let him down i have no desire to be sexly active with him .only due to having cancer cells to be removed and a hystorectomy .there fore i have no female organ to make me feel this way for a very long time .im sick off all the needels that i had to have have and my family are over it what can i do to get them to love and respect me like they used .to i have not been the best person to be around .i love my husband with all my heart ,some one help .he has a daughter who is 25 and has beaten me on a few time and her dad say,s that i asked for it .desperate what to do ,i have 3 childre to another person but hmy husaband has bought up all my kids for 18 years .and they find him to love his real kids more than he does them .his real kids give him nothing for fathers day or birhday nor xmas .the step daughter tells me her father owes her and he is going to pay she give sthe family nothing but strees

2006-09-29 11:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by mel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He keeps promising me trips and even money, Im not like that at all... but its like candy from a baby type senario... ok call me evil but what do you all think? I've made myself blatantly clear to the guy Im not interested, he is asking for it!

2006-09-29 11:20:36 · 6 answers · asked by ladywonder 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-29 11:20:33 · 10 answers · asked by position28 4 in Singles & Dating

and this is the second time weve been on cops I know he loves me what should I do.

2006-09-29 11:20:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay. my bf and i have been on and off for 14 months-mostly on. then we ended up going to the same university as transfer students withiout even knowing it. okay, here is where is all gets confusing: so, he tells me that some good things usually ocme to an end to which i was like what the heck? in my mind i was
thinking he he wants to call it quits but he said that sooner or later all good things must come to an end. but then i give him ex's of my parents and his parents and how they did not divorce nor breakup.so, he tells me that sometimes you cannot have everything you want: what does he want or mean? i mean he is really serious about this relationship, more than the prior ones-that is what his sis sort of told me. well, i know he met this girl jessica while working out and it has been bugging me ever since-we were broken up at the time-and she gave him her # and he took it !i dont want to come out sounding like a ***** but i dont want her in my and his life-i never told him that.

2006-09-29 11:19:26 · 9 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

hi we have been marr for 2 years with 3 kids, from the start she has had problems with trust and love, so i have been understanding,and try to helpfull, i can never do any right in her eyes?!!shoul i stay or should i go? i want to stay! but it hurts me emontionaly.and she always wants us too fight in front our children. please help?

2006-09-29 11:19:08 · 12 answers · asked by brentt a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay. my bf and i have been on and off for 14 months-mostly on. then we ended up going to the same university as transfer students withiout even knowing it. okay, here is where is all gets confusing: so, he tells me that some good things usually ocme to an end to which i was like what the heck? in my mind i was
thinking he he wants to call it quits but he said that sooner or later all good things must come to an end. but then i give him ex's of my parents and his parents and how they did not divorce nor breakup.so, he tells me that sometimes you cannot have everything you want: what does he want or mean? i mean he is really serious about this relationship, more than the prior ones-that is what his sis sort of told me. well, i know he met this girl jessica while working out and it has been bugging me ever since-we were broken up at the time-and she gave him her # and he took it !i dont want to come out sounding like a ***** but i dont want her in my and his life-i never told him that.

2006-09-29 11:18:40 · 5 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

hi we have been marr for 2 years with 3 kids, from she has had problems with trust and love, so i have been understanding,and try to helpfull, i can never do any right in her eyes?!!shoul i stay or should i go? i want to stay! but it hurts me emontionaly.and she always wants us too fight in front our children. please help?

2006-09-29 11:18:14 · 6 answers · asked by brentt a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married & my fiance wants to dedicate a song to me AND his daughter (she's 17) at our dance. I really don't like the idea. I feel since this is my special day (never been married) Shouldn't he dedicate a song to me expressing his feelings for me? I am also dedicating a song to him & to him only! I told him he could dedicate a song to her AFTER my song is played but he wants to include her in my song. I don't mean to sound selfish bcuz I love my soon to be stepdaughter but I have dreamt about this day since I was a little girl! What do you think?

2006-09-29 11:17:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We have been living together for over a year and plan to marry and every time we're stressed out I get hit. I know I know leave him! But I do love him and usually we get along fine! Am very confused!!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

2006-09-29 11:16:16 · 35 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK A WHILE AGO I MADE A LOT OF MISTAKES LIKE HANIN AROUND THE WRONG PEOPLE SO MI MOM PUT ME IN A CATHOLIC SCHOOL. NONE OF THE PEOPLE LIKE ME AND I CRY MISELF TA SLEEP EACH NIGHT SO WAT DO U THINK I NEED TA DO TA LET MI MOM NO THAT IM READY TA GO BACK TA MI OLD SCHOOL AND NOT SCREW UP? PLEZZZZZZZZZZ HELP I NEED TA DO THIZ BEFOR JANUARY LONG TIME RIGHT?

2006-09-29 11:16:10 · 8 answers · asked by Krispy™ 2 in Family

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2.

I am 24, he is 26.

We went to college, bought a house, have careers and have traveled all over.

We are homebodies, love to spend time together and visit our family.

Our relationship is very stable and we are ready to start a family.

When friends of mine find out about our plans to have a baby soon then say really discouraging things.

They will say they love their children, but it strained their relationship and the changes a child causes brings a lot of tension.

They say to cherish all the time I can spend with my husband without children.

These friends were not married before getting pregnant, and were together for only 1-2 years when they had their child.

Why does it seem like my friends think having children are bad?

Why do they discourage us from bringing a child into a happy and stable marriage?!

2006-09-29 11:15:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Most all the answers I got about my cheating wife was "forgive her" Sorry, but I just can't.

2006-09-29 11:15:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl I see in the halls of my high school.I see her everyday when I am going to my 5th period class. I do not know her name. We are not in any classes together and I don't know if she is in the 11th grade as me or in 12th grade. I think she is cute. I want to talk to her and try to become friends but I am not sure what I should do. Should I talk to her or not talk to her at all. What do you think I should do?

2006-09-29 11:14:16 · 4 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Friends

no im not gay, im graduatedand this girl i like, is a senior, shes cute, i had wanted to leave her roses on her car she works in target, and talk to her, then the next day ask to go to a dinner and a movie, and she sayed she doesnt work now i wanna maybe join her and go to the mall, she wants to hang out so? shes popular and loves shopping ,could get a little pricy, but, thats why i dont wanna take her out smwhere and canoing? i know she know that i think shes cute, but how do i flirt with her in a way that, maybe kiss, hold hands, then ask her for a date on fri, dinner and movie, possibly? i wanna try to be romantic and leave her roses on her car, but "she doesnt work"

2006-09-29 11:14:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a girl wears make up and when they were a white shirt and u can see there colored bra under it

2006-09-29 11:14:01 · 14 answers · asked by allie 1 in Singles & Dating