My boyfriend finds it wrong that i ask "what friend"...he feels that i shouldn't ask...and if i do...its because im insecure.
2006-09-29 11:28:15 · 22 answers · asked by lb_angel80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you have the right to . I always ask my bf and he doesn't mind. Just say you would like to know.
2006-09-29 11:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm
when a relation comes with what friend and whom you were with too much or whenever he is out
it becomes more like parental and controling
though i know you just didnt mean that
but i guess if he was fooling round he wouldnt be telling you
i am going to a movie with a friend
be smart and when he comes back ask him about the movie
if he saw it so he will tell
if no so he didnt
then u can be suspicious
other wise love him as much u do and show him that
no man would let some one love him go easily or hurt
if that happened this man is psycho no offense for guys out there
but for me i am totally cool to be asked where i am going and with who
2006-09-29 11:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by alexandre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should tell you hes going with Bob or Sam or whoever.........hes playing a game with you. No its not wrong to ask. But it may be the manner in which you are asking tho. So, try changing that up a bit. Instead of asking which friend, say........Oh cool, (be excited that hes leaving you alone for 2 hours) who's going with you?
And when he gets defensive tell him..........oh sorry I just wondered, I am going to a club with a friend too.........maybe I will see you tomorrow.......!!!
So, play his stupid game right back he wants to be that childish.
He causes you to be insecure b/c he tries to keep things from you that will make you wonder.........and that my dear is stupid on his part.
good luck with Junior
2006-09-29 11:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a simple question! Geez, tell the man to lighten up. What is he hiding that he has to turn it around on you? Asking is not insecure...his attitude shows he's trying to get around something. Keep asking!
2006-09-29 11:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is because youre insecure. don't fool yourself. chill out let the guy go to a movie.
but i will say this. if he's throwing fits about it and acting fishy
he's lying to you and going to the movies with a chick.
trust me i'm a guy and have cheated more than once.
(but that's when i was a kid-happily married now)
2006-09-29 11:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all , bacause if hes going with a girl to the movies. And you dont now about it hes maybe cheating on you and in the future that can hurt you,burn you, and piss you off.
2006-09-29 11:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you're only insecure about it because he's acting suspicious.
most of the time if a guy has nothing to hide.. they wont.
Most men who feel the need to hide things.. are doing something or thinking about doing something they'll need to hide
2006-09-29 11:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by attila 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to ask as long as you're not being high-mantinenced or a control-freak. But if you're just calmly asking him what friend then you have every right to.
2006-09-29 11:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Kiara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's nothing wrong to ask him if you don't feel insecure. If you fell that way don't ask.
2006-09-29 11:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe its true that women always need to know where their boyfriend is and who is hanging with all the time.
2006-09-29 11:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋