My sons father is 28, and constantly parties, he lies and he cheats, even though we aren't together, he still maintains we have a future andhe wants to be a good father. He has no time for his son and tried to blame it on work. Our son is 11mths old, and he really doesn't know his father. He dabbles as a corner pharmisist. He even has alcohol and drug addictions, which he hid from me. Now that I am aware, I try to get him help. But he refuses. The group he associates with have nothing in the ay of morals or values. I am the b****. He will move mountains for them, and do nothing for his son, or me. I am trying to move on, but he keeps his presence know. I care, but I am not willing to go through the added drama. When will his child become important? He uses him as a chick magnet, the two times he had him alone. I am afraid to allow him alone with my son. He says I should hold it down, and be patient. This is literally making me sick. Why is this such an alluring game for him?
2006-09-29
14:12:51
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