I started seeing this guy that lives in my neighborhood. He had seperated from his x wife for about 3 mnths so I felt it was safe to at least go out. He ended up going back out with her.He still lives here in the apt complex. He told me he was confused and that he felt guilty. I told him off because he hurt my feelings and he made all these promises that he didn't keep.So be it. I have learned my lesson. He told me to never call him again. I dont. I stopped! I refuse to beg someone or look stupid. I have to drive by his flat on the way out. His door is visible clearly from the road in front. When I am driving around the curve to leave his door is actually facing me. He has a mini camera set up on his door to see whos coming up. I drove by the other day going out & he stepped out of his door and then went back in real quick & shut the door. How dumb. I havent spoke to him in 2wks what is he doing? If I was stalking him or still calling I would get it but what is he trying to prove?
2006-09-29 14:23:52 · 9 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stay away from the man hes not stable.
2006-09-30 01:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From What I read above, hes not doing a thing but you have a wild imagination. Now if he was calling you or leaving love notes on your car its one thing but everything youve said above is about you. Of course, living in the same apt.complex, youre bound to cross paths from time to time but it sounds like hes doing his best to avoid you. He has no obvious reason to prove a thing to you. You guys had a few laughs or whatever, so leave it at that and move on. If your paths do cross, say hi, how are you and leave it at that, nothing more. You two werent meant to be so quit trying to make it happen because it wont. Good luck
2006-09-29 14:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you still have feelings for the guy. If you really want to move on, then do. When you pass by his apartment (whether or not it is in front of your face), just don't focus on it. He can dart in and out of his door anytime he feels like, don't make it your business to find out what he is doing, just continue taking care of your own business. It's your life, do you really want to live it wondering what is wrong with this man?
2006-09-29 14:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does his wife know of what happened with you guys??
If not maybe he is paranoid you will have a talk with his wife..
or he could be flattering himself thinking you are stalking him..
Just go about your business and ignore him.. dont give the idiot anymore power in your life.. Who cares what he is trying to prove it is over and done with.. unless you still secretly want him back.
which i dont really feel you do according to your letter..
2006-09-29 14:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but dum men s u c k regardless they dont even start getting life till after 40..then they chase little whores... give him the number one uno middle finger next time u see him and chalk it all up as a learning experience....foreign men seem to know how to treat a lady...
2006-09-29 14:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you were a pawn to get to his ex wife. Good riddance.
2006-09-29 18:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just being stupid and immature. i wouldn't worry about it. props to you for being such a strong woman.
2006-09-29 14:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been used. Learn from this and don't let it happen again.
2006-09-30 12:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't feel that he is doing anything i think you would like him to move on girl
2006-09-29 15:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by lishlama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋