I'm going out with a dude but like someone else a little bit more?

Question

ok so....heres the problem, i have a boyfriend (blaine) who i like but on my first period theres a another guy (duncan) who i really like a little bit more then my boyfriend. Except duncan doesnt want a girlfriend at the moment and he told a few people that once he's ready he'll go out with me but im not surely sure. But the other problem is im kind of having some trouble talking to duncan cuz i get all shy around him and have no idea what to say. So help me cuz i truely dont no what to do about blaine and duncan and i also need help talking to duncan without being so shy and not being able to talk to him.

Answer 1

Here is the thing, break it off with your boyfriend. Never keep someone around just so you aren't alone. See if it happens with this other guy. If it doesn't, not the end of the world. These aren't the only 2 guys out there for you. Just be honest, no one likes being lied to or played for a fool.

Answer 2

i think u should first decide who do u like more.. and concentrate on him.. then u go for it.. so if its duncan, u have to work on ur shyness and thats by being urself.. dont think of anything to say or do when u're with him.. just let urself relax .. and talk as if u're talking to a very close friend, then u wont feel any shyness!