Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

My husband can be very cruel with what he says to me and my children (his stepchildren)
For example, today, my daughter (11) forgot to lock the door on the way into the house after school. He is very OCD about locking doors. He came up to her while she was doing her homework and started yelling at her and calling her a MORRON. He is scary when he does this. He often refers to us all as "sick" and says we "need an institution". He thinks he has a right to treat us like this, and I know he doesn't. I grew up w/ a lot of verbal abuse, and I don't want my children to have to live with this. He refuses to go to marriage counceling. We are probably going to get separated soon, which is very sad, because despite his bad temper, he can be very loving and sweet. I know what I should do, but I guess I just need to hear it.

2006-09-27 12:33:40 · 18 answers · asked by lorgurus 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy i like in school but we're to shy to talk to each other i've tried evrything but i'm way to shy to even smile to him please help!!!!!!

2006-09-27 12:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by jazzy108 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this amazing friend. we're sooooo extremely close it isn't even normal. all our lives we've done everything together and i dunno what in heaven's name i would ever do without her. we've been best friends FOREVER!!!! so now here's the problem....she just confessed to me that she's a lesbian and she has the hots for me!!!!!!!!!!!! what am i supposed to think after something like that?!?!?!? i felt like it came out of nowhere so i asked her if she's always been this way and she said no. its just that ever since we started going to an all-girls school together with a few other friends, she started to get attracted to girls. i dunno what to do!!!!! how can i live with that piece of information????? am i supposed to still be friends with her? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-27 12:32:29 · 13 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

2006-09-27 12:31:58 · 13 answers · asked by Colleen M 1 in Family

2006-09-27 12:31:56 · 20 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Singles & Dating

I love them both, but I havent told my gf and her brother yet.

2006-09-27 12:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Whats it better to be??? or somewhere in the middle maybe...

2006-09-27 12:30:59 · 27 answers · asked by Georgie's Girl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 12:30:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, my best friend has been waking up late for work three times out of the week. He goes to be early, but still wakes up late. How or what can I do to help him not to be late for work. I have offered to call him in the morning, but I would some other advise to help him out.

2006-09-27 12:30:03 · 11 answers · asked by forbidden_angel21 1 in Friends

do guys like super skinney chicks....or "curvey" chicks?

2006-09-27 12:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by *lonely one* 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there this guy i really like i have known for a year and he told my friend he lieks me and that he going to ask me out and stuff and hes really sweet and stuff, but he keeps talking to me a lot and stil says he likes me and stil says hegoing to ask me out but he doesnt what should i do? i really want him to ask me out ,today iwrote him a note experssing my feelings, whats my next step, what should i do?
signed me

2006-09-27 12:28:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just sent a chain letter titled "Fwd: FWD: Re: FWD: Fwd: the boyfriend test" to the toughest english teacher in the school! I'm not even in his class, but he met me at orientation... I hope he doesn't remember me... Anyway, I am totally freaking out and I sent another email telling him that I was REALLY sorry, and that it was and accident and to please delete it... I think he'll read it anyway and tell his class about it the next day! AAAAA!!!! I'm trying to do my homework but I can't focus because I'm so scared and embarrassed... PLEASE HELP! Should I wear a paper bag over my head for the next week or so? Has this happened to you before? Am I freaking out too much???

2006-09-27 12:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by pseudonym 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would do you do if your friend is home sick? I need help. Quick!

2006-09-27 12:28:37 · 8 answers · asked by sccer_luver 1 in Friends

2006-09-27 12:27:49 · 8 answers · asked by EL GANGSTA. 3 in Singles & Dating

give us your reason paleez!

2006-09-27 12:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by thomas e 2 in Family

i have always wanted to get to know some guy that knows how to treat a woman....

2006-09-27 12:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 12:26:59 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 12:26:40 · 21 answers · asked by airjmeder92 1 in Singles & Dating

he turned 30 and his attitude changed. i am 22. he said he needs to stabalise his life. he said he wants to be alone. is it possible that one day he may wake up and realise he still has feelings for me? do u believe in fate? we both were there for each other when we were in need. we were the closest to each other that we had in life?something is just telling me not to let go yet and i dont know what it is....

2006-09-27 12:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm doing some research for my college psychology class on this subject and i was just wondering how many people will answer this.

2006-09-27 12:25:59 · 6 answers · asked by sixstring 1 in Family

so i sat down to have my tarot cards read last night and she told me my fionce is childish and that he is not right for me and that we are going to break up and there will be no wedding.

So this is the second time i have had this done and by two diffrent people.
they asked no questions and yet told me the same thing.
do u beileve?

2006-09-27 12:24:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

please read this all the way through if you have the time. i'm a lil confused.


well there's this guy at my school and he's really cute and he doesnt really like me.... well i dont KNOW that [blahblahblah] but he SEEMS annoyed by me..... but I KNOW if he ever talked to me for like... more than the usual 30 seconds i know he'd like me cuz we got some stuffs in common and it's annoying me that he wont even gimmee a chance... there are some other ppls like this too. and it never bothered be before when ppl didnt like me. but now when i know some stuff about these ppls if i know they'd like me if they only wernt so shallow and whatever. so now it bothers me... should it?!! and what should i do about this guy [i'm talking about him even liking me as a friend. or whatever]

2006-09-27 12:24:53 · 16 answers · asked by AJ_Let'sGetFucktUp&Die. 2 in Friends

relationship, becuase he goes to London to study and teach, difficult enought right_So i asked hm to rent with a man, and he comes saying he will rent with a female friend. They are going to see this month, him, her and the son of her, if it works. I couldnt beleive it, it was listening the word WE , and me just left away.
I am glad at least someones feelings have importance, sarcasm.
So here I am, trying to get over, and wondering why men are so stupid, if he wants to end the relationship, why not being honest, but why all this perverse game_I cant get over really. It has being a relationship of two years. I am so desapointed
Nothing will change his stupid mind, what would you do

2006-09-27 12:24:50 · 12 answers · asked by monis 2 in Singles & Dating

at some times I feel like no one is out there. my friends are starting to abandon me all hope is lost I am drowning in my own stress can any one give me advice?

2006-09-27 12:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When you see a guy who has freckles do you think he is ugly? Do you like guys who have freckles?
Yes / no? Explain.

2006-09-27 12:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 12:24:34 · 3 answers · asked by greg g 1 in Family

My brother just tried to committ suicide for the 2nd time tonight. I need answers fast. He is an alcolholic and emotional. Alcolhol has given him the courage both times. Our family just don't know what to do.

2006-09-27 12:24:27 · 5 answers · asked by natelovesaimee 1 in Family

I'm not shure if he's just being friendly or Actually likes me :
-he talked to me this morning and keeps showing up in places that im at...
-he always smiles around me and makes an effort to hang out with me
-he talks to me online a few times
- he always says " HI LAUREN!" in the halls real cheery like
-someone has told him i like him as more than a friend but hasnt seemed to be scared off by it.
-he told me we should hang out more.....

2006-09-27 12:23:31 · 8 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 12:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Lorraine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 12:22:59 · 21 answers · asked by Giggly Giraffe 7 in Singles & Dating