2006-09-27 12:26:40 · 21 answers · asked by airjmeder92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you don't KNOW that, trust me! :)
Enjoy your time together, but do NOT be shocked if it doesn't work out later on, you both are very young, and life will change you and your likes/dislikes.
You will be amazed at the changes in yourself even 10 years from now, I kid you not! (no pun intended....)
2006-09-27 12:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both already know you will be together forever - then take your time and wait till you are older to get married. If this is a very special union - you should do it right and wait until you are a legal age to wed. Also, you should have a very special wedding since it is the only one you ever plan on having. In the mean time plan your special wedding and do well in school so you can support your life together when you leave home. Also, take the time you have now to talk about whether or not you will have kids and how you will raise them and all those sorts of ideas. Also take the time to figure out what kind of jobs will you have and where will you both live. Talk about the future in detail and when the time comes that you are of age to wed then you will be more prepared for what adult life holds for you. Talk to older couples and see if they can give you some good advice too about what you should be planning on for when you are old enough to get married.
God Bless and good luck!
2006-09-27 19:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes marry the girl you love. But you cant say that now. I just got out of a relationship and we thought we would be together forever...and we are both 18 now. I just met this absolutely amazing guy and he is already better than the guy i was with earlier even though i thought it wasnt possible.
You are only 14 dont think about marriage this early...once you get into high school people start to change (as much as you dont want them too) and its hard. So wait it out, if it works congrats im all for you but if not, then it wasnt meant to be and you will find someone better.
2006-09-27 19:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth the Great 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course u should marry the lady u love. But in my opinion at 14 you don't know what true love is yet. If u haven't experienced sexual intercourse with this person yet i applaud you and at 14 you should be waiting anyway . But if u have, just remember love and sex don't have to go together.They both work fine without each other.Take your time ,think things thru,and forever is a long time at 14.At 25 forever is a long time . Both of you should concentrate on your school work which will = good grades = good job =secure future.Thats what is forever !!
2006-09-27 19:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by drew c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure you should marry the girl you love, but why are you thinking about marriage at 14? if she is the girl for you she will be there when you are ready. For now enjoy being with each other, and have fun, once you have experience life a little more, you may change your mind.
2006-09-27 19:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by sagie29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're only 14 you don't know! What if your family moves and you meet someone 10 times better than the girl you "love"? What if she dies before you get the chance! What if she finds another man! What if you find out in the future that you are too different!!
You can never know when they're the one until you're older. What if's can certainly come into effect.
2006-09-27 19:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married at 14???
hmmmm....where are your parents young man???
at 14, you have no clue what "forever" means...so go talk to your parents first...
And even if you are going to be together for the rest of your lives, that doesn't mean that you shouldn't wait to become a husband and a father!.
2006-09-27 19:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by Julieta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god no!!! you are crazy if you do, you may be in love or think you are...I thought i'd marry my boyfriend when i was that age, we both thought it, but you change so much in high school and college. Get out and test drive some other people to find what you do and don't like. Sex with other people, migosh you'll be missing out on SOOOOOO much! you'll thank yourself for asking this question later in life, trust me and everyone else who answers this telling you to not do it!
2006-09-27 19:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are Kidding! If you know you are going to be together. What's the rush? You are 14 only once.
2006-09-27 19:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you already know that you will be with your girl friend forever?then why not wait until you are old enough to make your own choices in life,like buying you a car,travelling,buying your own home,discovering new extremes.Why do you want to settle down now?You haven't even lived yet!!!
2006-09-27 19:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋