ok there this guy i really like i have known for a year and he told my friend he lieks me and that he going to ask me out and stuff and hes really sweet and stuff, but he keeps talking to me a lot and stil says he likes me and stil says hegoing to ask me out but he doesnt what should i do? i really want him to ask me out ,today iwrote him a note experssing my feelings, whats my next step, what should i do?
signed me
2006-09-27 12:28:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know he likes you and you like him. Don't write the note/letter to him. Just go on and tell him to meet you at your special place and start making out! You know he's really shy or he's just pretending. If he won't move to the next level, you should take over!
2006-09-27 12:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
O GOD... please dont give him that note...FOR THE LUV OF GOD.... That is sooooo juvinile.
You would end up embarrasing your self.
Just go with the flow for a while... it sounds like your rushing into some kind of first kiss moment.. that will happen when its mutual.
If he's too shy... why dont you start small by saying " wanna go to see that movie friday night ?/ or something like that.
Gradually moving in this direction will get you farther then a GIRLIE note expressing how great he makes you feel. Come on girl dont scare the dude.
2006-09-27 12:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by BeezKneez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've already told him how you feel, so the next step is asking how he TRULY feels. He says he's going to ask you out, but if he doesn't he may just be saying that to make you like him while he goes out with someone else, or maybe he's just scared to make that kind of comitment and it's one of his goals. Ask him if it's either of these questions, you may get your answer.
2006-09-27 12:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by mysteriousmystery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds to me like he is suffering from "cold feet". It happens alot among men. A fast way to get him to ask you out would be to have one of your friends one day walk up to him and tell him that another guy is thinking about ask you out. that will more than likely force him to act quickly. Trust me when it comes to men we are rather empty headed, We tend to need alot of help understanding what a woman wants. lol
Good luck
2006-09-27 12:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by brazilman37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the note and accept that the ball is in his court. Give him time to ask you out, it isn't always so easy when you really like someone. He's got to get his balls on and that may take a little while.
2006-09-27 12:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by leannainpa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would just tell him that you like him. Talk to him about going out and he'll probably ask you out. The thing is talk to him about your relationship and if things don't work out, if you can stay friends and not be wierd around each other.
2006-09-27 12:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by MrsBrightside0247 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you put yourself out there witch is good but now you really need to wait and see how it go if you cant wait then you need to make the move and go for it ask him. asking guys is the new thing and you really like him so dont worry about what other people think!
lola
2006-09-27 12:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that you should ask him out. i mean if he really does like you he will say yes and if he doesn't and is just playing around you would at least know that and wouldnt get hurt as bad as if you let yourself going on with out knowing
2006-09-27 12:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he talks to you and tells you he likes you and that he's gonna ask you out but he hasn't he's scared or nervous about wat your reaction is gonna be! so y don't u be a lil bold and ask him out or if you just say : Hey i like you do u think we could hang " then he'll kno you lik him and he'll prolly get up the courage to ask you out and if he doesn't he's wimpy and maybe's he's not right for you! but u won't no until : YOU TAKE A CHANCE!!!!!!!!
2006-09-27 12:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by haitianluv4life 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss him square in the mouth and invite him over. Aguy loves agression.
2006-09-27 12:31:48 · answer #10 · answered by ricardo l 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋