Family & Relationships - 26 September 2006

I am a 22/m white. I was an army brat and lived everywhere with all races. I don't see race unlike 90% of the world. I just see people. I have this issue I've been struggling with for a long time. Since 13 I have fit in better and felt more comfortable around black people and in urban culture (I have a fade, diamonds in my ears, wear jordans and tims, only listen to r&b and rap) than in "white" culture. I wanna try dating black women too. I am just trying to be myself and I feel best this way, but I don't know why. I jus feel like this is who I am and if I'm not bein myself then I'm jus doin myself wrong. You gotta live for yourself. I'm struggling with this because some ppl want me to have this image of being this all american kid and it just isn't me. I am graduating college with my bachelor's in may and am gonna be a juve delinq counselor. Should I jus conform, live the way some (ex. my parents and proffessors) want, or to just be me? Why am I this way and what do you think?

2006-09-26 17:42:11 · 9 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i wanna get married and wanna print the concent forms off line. where can i find them?

2006-09-26 17:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by mamacita 1 in Weddings

2006-09-26 17:40:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went over my bf house today ..and i had an essay deadline i needed to email..his com puter didnt work inhis room.. so we had to go to his sisters room to use it ( she wasnt home).. i saw some pictures and i look at them..(thats your reaction to look right?).. well my bf yelled at me saying i have to respect other ppls thing.. i was just looking at pictures taht were hanging on the wall.. i wanted to look at the pictures on the other side..and he said no and started yelling more and got mad.. ami wrong here? or who?.. he says he wouldnt want pppl looking thru his stuff if he werent home..and i am more laid back and dont care.. so what???

2006-09-26 17:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 17:39:11 · 11 answers · asked by á?¦â?¥á?¦SHELLá?¦â?¥á?¦ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 17:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by jqdsilva 3 in Family

2006-09-26 17:38:33 · 18 answers · asked by á?¦â?¥á?¦SHELLá?¦â?¥á?¦ 1 in Friends

Well, there's this boy who likes me and i sort of like him but my friend says they go together but he says he doesn't know her at all. She provokes me to get angry by telling me good and bad things about him and what might happen if we go out!

2006-09-26 17:38:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so if a woman goes down on a man in the beginning and then stopps thats ok, but then if a man does not give a woman what ever sexually or emotionally then he is a dirty low down dog. thats how i read some of the answers. one more point i have backed of asking her, its been almost 3 months since she last gave me some oral and every time i try to talk to her she gets mad and says that im for the lack of a better term, shoving it down her throat. im not expecting it every time but once in a while without me asking for it would be nice

2006-09-26 17:38:22 · 1 answers · asked by keithy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-26 17:37:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are women looking for strong yet sensitive guys that like to cuddle and be intmate? And if yes then why does that and the wat for comitment seem to make gals run for the hills

2006-09-26 17:37:20 · 9 answers · asked by skull1911 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 17:36:35 · 9 answers · asked by Newcomer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 17:36:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alright Im 22 and Im man enough to admit I am average at best and I have had only enough relationships to count on one hand, I am a funny guy and I work my best at everything I do. My question to you Is, I have a hard time meeting WOMEN and when I do actually meet someone I end up getting ****** over. My last "crush" kept feeding me horse **** about not wanting a relationship even though we were spending ALOT of time together and then she ends up with this asshole she was b/s me that he was her brother's friend. The second I said I had, Had it with her lies shes claiming that guy as her b/f WTF???? What can I do or What should I do. I try the myspace thing and im getting no where while my friends are hitting off left and right and Im on the same par as them on most levels. Advice anyone???

2006-09-26 17:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Underpantsbandito 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and love hime to death. Before i started dating him i used to mess around with my ex-boss(my boyfriend doesnt know anything about that).When my boyfriend and I started dating, I messed around with my ex-boss couple of times in the beginning but then it stopped. I didnt speak to my ex-boss for some time, however about 10 months later he called me and we met up. He tried to persuave me that he is a better match for me, that he could provide me a better future (financial) and give me things that i want. while we had this conversation in his car (twice) we fooled around little bit (kissing and bit of touching). When i came to my senses, i realized that i shouldnt even contemplated his offer. I did tell him no, but he kept pushing. I dont know why i met up with him those 2times. After that happened i told him that i dont want to be with him and to leave me alone. I am afraid that one day he may tell my boyfriend about those 2x just to be spiteful.

2006-09-26 17:35:56 · 7 answers · asked by brianna123_456 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 17:35:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 17:34:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend insist that its the right hand and that is the first I have heard of ,,,,eleven years of marriage and my ring on the left where my honey put it,,,Where your ring?

2006-09-26 17:34:22 · 21 answers · asked by b4utell 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-26 17:34:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im on the process now of making our list of different wedding packages....and i want to associate it with our company name heavenlyweddings....can anyone help me ? I need four names i already have one its heavenly match .....please help.....thanks

2006-09-26 17:32:59 · 4 answers · asked by boang 2 in Weddings

2006-09-26 17:32:36 · 9 answers · asked by alexaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just typings and stuff like that. How could ppl can possibly have cyber sex over the internet??

2006-09-26 17:32:16 · 11 answers · asked by AlvaDaGansta 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-26 17:32:15 · 9 answers · asked by alexaa 1 in Singles & Dating

i really liek this passage from the bible. what does it mean really?

REV 21:4 & God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away. "

2006-09-26 17:31:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my b/f talks about getting merried soon! he said he might get me a ring for christmas, but I am only 18, & we have only been dateing for one year! is that to soon?

2006-09-26 17:30:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anna L 1 in Weddings

Last night, I was quite drunk as attend a wedding party of friends. I was quite blur and could not even opened the door. It was my sis who opened it. I also don't know how I managed to reached home or whatever. But when I opened my eyes today, my sis was sleeping beside me!! She was naked too. I feel wet on below and 'check'. There was sperm around it and the bed was abit wet. She woke up and tell me we had a few rounds of sex yesterday. I was quite angry when I knew she never even stopped me and even 'enjoyed' it. Anyway, that time my parents was not around as they went for holiday. And she also promised she won't tell anyone about it. But I can't even remember I did it... Should I trust her or not...?

2006-09-26 17:30:48 · 16 answers · asked by porridge0000 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Rape a sexy STUD!!!! And you say that raping a man is impossible...? Well, think again!

2006-09-26 17:30:03 · 10 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I am in love with this guy. I am two years younger. He said I had to wait until next year and then he would go out with me. It is just an age thing. I don't get it. I like this guy soooo much. he likes me too except he thinks it would be a little weird for us to be together because i am two years younger.

2006-09-26 17:29:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really feel my life is hopeless, i mean my family hates me. and i can barely live with them.. i want to die... seriously....what should i do?

2006-09-26 17:29:02 · 12 answers · asked by I'm Sexy!! and you know i am 2 in Family

I am looking for my biological father his name is Henry Brock he would be in his late 50's to his early 70's he lived in the New Madrid County area in Southeast Missouri in the late 60's most of 70's
My mother's name was Betty Kay Melton she was in her early 20's in 71 when I was born. I have tried most of the search sites and since I only have his name they are not much help I figured this was worth a shot
So if anybody has any information about him anywhere I would appreciate the help

2006-09-26 17:27:58 · 9 answers · asked by bkm_71csi 3 in Other - Family & Relationships