Alright Im 22 and Im man enough to admit I am average at best and I have had only enough relationships to count on one hand, I am a funny guy and I work my best at everything I do. My question to you Is, I have a hard time meeting WOMEN and when I do actually meet someone I end up getting ****** over. My last "crush" kept feeding me horse **** about not wanting a relationship even though we were spending ALOT of time together and then she ends up with this asshole she was b/s me that he was her brother's friend. The second I said I had, Had it with her lies shes claiming that guy as her b/f WTF???? What can I do or What should I do. I try the myspace thing and im getting no where while my friends are hitting off left and right and Im on the same par as them on most levels. Advice anyone???
2006-09-26 17:36:24 · 14 answers · asked by Underpantsbandito 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you should rethink what your type is and try dating a different kind of girl... plus if a girl isn't willing to commit drop her and move on. trust me that someday you will find the right girl and she'll want nothing more than to be your girlfriend and she won't give you any bs. don't put up with bitchy girls just let them go and trust that there will be someone new.
2006-09-26 17:40:24 · answer #1 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, from a woman, calm down!! :-) Life is rough for all of us. There are a lot of women out there that feel the same way you do. Take some time for yourself and stop looking for that perfect someone to complete you and make your life whole. Only then will you be comfortable enough (and attractive enough) to come across someone that ENHANCES your life instead of "completes" it. Try reading Purpose Driven Life or Science of Mind magazine. Both are SLIGHTLY religious in different ways. Science of Life works better for me, but that's just me. Good luck from a WOMAN. ;-)
2006-09-26 18:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Underpantsbandito,
You're letting these girls walk all over you, man. Stop being a whimp. You need to follow your own rules. Check out Leykis-101. Pretty soon you'll be taking out a lot more women.
You need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-09-26 17:46:12 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me where do you go to meet these girls.
Generally woman like to be told nice things and many prefer
those men who don';t swear who mind there Ps and Qs.
Also when taking a lady out conversation has to flow, and
friends are another thing.Get to know the girl first before introduction to friends.
I know most men meet girls at bars, Your going to think this is weird, but woman don't only go to bars, they also jog go to the gym and read in Parks, Ride a bike.
Some even join clubs where they meet single men and woman.
Try a couple./
2006-09-26 17:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by aotea s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like you need to get their intent down. I know its tough to ask the question "where do you see this going?" or "so what exactly are you looking for?" you might not always get a straight answer but at least the girl knows that you mean to find someone and not dick around and be ready to pull out the ultimatium "I like spending time with you but I need to know if this is going to lead to a relationship or should i start looking elsewhere?" believe me i know its hard mostly cause you dont want the answer that your heart dosent want to hear and whould like to live along the lines of ignorance is bliss but it catches up with you
2006-09-26 17:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by skull1911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-09-26 17:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's ignoring you, she's no longer into you. locate somebody else. additionally, being a severe high quality guy will no longer help get you interior the sack. you may paintings on your inner azzhole. till you want to attend till you're 40 in the previous assembly Mrs. suitable.
2016-10-18 01:22:31 · answer #7 · answered by finkenbiner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be judgemental,don't expect so much,take your time,relax, have fun,live life to the fullest,don't look for them,let them come to you,take control of the situations you put yourself in,Even though your crush put you through all that, your keen to get up and try again and that's the best thing you can do.And when you least expect it............................... It'll happen.
2006-09-26 18:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOM LEYKIS, if you don't know who he is, google his name and you'll see method behind his woman magnet skills. I kid you not, for real yo, check it.
Treat them like crap and they'll keep coming back. You condition women to feel like that and they'll believe it, and keep coming back for you to 'eventually' come around and be nice. B/S...take it from me, a former "nice guy". They never get the booty nor the digits. The women like nice boys, but they like Bad Boy Yardies even more....
2006-09-26 17:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by strong_n_tender_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be natural and be true to yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Even at this modern age, most females would still want a chivalric knight. Somebody who respects them and who still has a romantic side. Males generally would want immediate physical connection but females in general desire for emotional bonding. Be sensitive to their feelings. Date a girl like you want to be dated. Talk to them like how you want them to talk to you. Treat them like you want to be treated. Respect them like you want to be respected. Love someone like you want to be loved. Try this principle and you will never go wrong.
2006-09-26 17:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by gvpocon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋