i went over my bf house today ..and i had an essay deadline i needed to email..his com puter didnt work inhis room.. so we had to go to his sisters room to use it ( she wasnt home).. i saw some pictures and i look at them..(thats your reaction to look right?).. well my bf yelled at me saying i have to respect other ppls thing.. i was just looking at pictures taht were hanging on the wall.. i wanted to look at the pictures on the other side..and he said no and started yelling more and got mad.. ami wrong here? or who?.. he says he wouldnt want pppl looking thru his stuff if he werent home..and i am more laid back and dont care.. so what???
2006-09-26 17:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
maybe his family is strange like that... i think the real problem here is that he got so angry over something so small... perhaps you need to rethink this relationship before you start getting mentally abused or even worse physically.
2006-09-26 17:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he over reacted. If they were out on the wall in plain view for anyone to see, then I don't think his sister would really care. I guess your bf just has a thing for privacy, but he is outta line on this one.
2006-09-27 00:41:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of guys in chines we called 'Da Nan Ren'... If it's his own stuff, i believe no1 will like others to touch it. But it's his sister stuff, moreover its not something so privacy that can let no one else touches it. But then again, its still better to ask permission before touching anything.
2006-09-27 00:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by porridge0000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he over reacted and you deserve an apology. even if she wouldve got mad that u were lookin @ her pics he didnt have to yell @ u n make it a big deal. Dump him b4 it gets worse! Trust me i know!
2006-09-27 01:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by munkieluv0110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are really funny about that i do not see a problem if she did not want people to look at her pictures than she should not have them out in the open
2006-09-27 00:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by dee d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he is right, he may know how his sister feels about those kind of things. it may be frivolous to you but it may be a big deal to her. just know that some people are very private. it seems to me that your boyfriend knows how she feels and you should just respect that.
2006-09-27 00:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG...what a friken loser !!!dump that b**** and get you a knew bf!!! you go girl
2006-09-27 00:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by penguin, or maniacle evil genius 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so nosey.
2006-09-27 00:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋