Family & Relationships - 23 September 2006

I was thinking a lap dance or a secret treasure hunt where he finds 2 tickets to a comedy show and dinner at his fave rest. with me, followedf by sex in a school girl outfit. But I dont have lots of cash and yet I want to be spontaneous and original. His b-day is coming up in Oct. too and I want to wow him with something thoughtful and fun. He has all the gadgets and music and dvds he likes, so i feel lost. I want toknock his socks off once in while when we go out instead of the same old sex, renting movies, and smoking. . So I need some answers from guys who will tell me the truth or cool chics who pulled off the impossible to give thier guys a smile. And I'm on a tight budget too. He knows I am struggling financially but I still want to give him some good times when we go out PLUS a good b-day in Nov.. Any ideas??? (as well, we've only been together 3 months)

2006-09-23 13:06:13 · 7 answers · asked by vada 4 in Singles & Dating

I like to think that I give my husband space ,he always goes out on fri and sat to a local bar with his best friend not crazy about it but its alright well his buddy moved away this week and I was happy cause ,my baby and I, well I thought my husband would spend more time with us but its worse now cause he now wants to go to the bar alone.I dont have a car so Im stuck at home all week.and my baby is teething so all she does is cry lately.Is this a lack of consideration on his part?Ive never confronted him about this,I dont stand up for myself like I should,should I start now?Am I the selfish one for asking he stay home or is he the selfish one?And another thing is hes not a teenager hes 43 years old.

2006-09-23 13:05:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-23 13:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by hemlock36 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently found that my boyfriend of 5 years is looking at porn about 4 times a week behin my back. NONE of these girls look anything like me. I get that it prolly is a fantasy thing but why then....Monday of this week I was so horny. I was literally begging him for sex I got him hard and suddenly he had to go pee. The whole time he was in the bathroom I never heard him pee but I did hear him drop the box of kleenex? seriously! Then he came out and said supposedly joking that was easy to jack off just had to hit a few times haha. When he says things like that he really means them but tries to throw me off so i don't get pissed. So I keep asking me and he keeps denying it. Now the rest of week I have begged him for sex and he just avoids me what is going on? What do I do? Does he really want me to be something different?

2006-09-23 13:03:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 13:03:27 · 12 answers · asked by Simona P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ie the number of times. or just in general....

2006-09-23 13:02:11 · 18 answers · asked by randy l 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey anyone remember me. ? The idiot who fell in love with the roomate. After one year of spending all our time together then he meets a girl over nite on a camping trip and poof I am history. It has been one month. He call'd me last week says he had a miss'd message on his phone and wanted to know if I had call'd no i had not tried. We talked a short while her name was never mentioned. I told him I would be there to get my things in about a week he said not to worry I had plenty of time and that he would let me know. My friend saw him the other day she ask him why he never came home. He told her why bother that I wasn't there. If thats so then why his he still Always with this other girl? I have not heard from him for three days. I know I need to go on I will not call him. It hurts I miss him alot. To beleive I am in my forties acting like a teenager. Am I just crazy? I keep myself busy. I have known this man for five years he was my best friend. Any advice please.

2006-09-23 13:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by pookiepoo11 1 in Friends

please don't say make them break up cuz i ain't that mean

2006-09-23 13:01:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 10 and dis girl stares at me at school and gossips about me to her friends we used to be just friends and shi+ but now she like me and i'm not interested now but shes pretty and latino like me what should i do.

2006-09-23 13:00:56 · 12 answers · asked by drz9kid 2 in Friends

Would you give him a chance or turn him down immediately? (By bigger I mean horizontally, not vertically)

2006-09-23 12:59:29 · 15 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Singles & Dating

My fiancée & I are looking to escape home (UK) to get married - mainly so we don't have to deal with people.
Our main ideas for wedding destinations are New Zealand & Europe (France & alpine regions especially), but are struggling to find comprehensive, cohesive information as to the differing laws, requirements & costs.
Basically a useful pointer would be really beneficial - I know there are numerous companies out there that provide the tailored services, but these come at a premium that two skint(ish) people would rather avoid.

2006-09-23 12:59:28 · 12 answers · asked by =[`] 1 in Weddings

who in here is in highschool?

2006-09-23 12:59:19 · 5 answers · asked by teresamvp25 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I called a guy today that i am crazy about, do you think he was glad of the call or would he think i was pushy?

2006-09-23 12:58:32 · 35 answers · asked by ball_cathie 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 29 and my parents are divorcing. Both try to get sympathy from my siblings and myself, but the problem is there are so many secrets, we have no idea what is the truth. They never had a great marriage, and were pretty crummy parents to me and my brothers. So why then, am I so depressed?

2006-09-23 12:57:42 · 4 answers · asked by Bellina 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we're always bumpn heads and i shouldnt have anything to feel guilty about

2006-09-23 12:57:27 · 12 answers · asked by bear 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-23 12:57:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl, Julie, I want to start to date her. But before I ask her out i want to become friends with her. I talk and tell jokes but I want to play with her at lunch, but she plays jump rope! First i hate jump rope second i suck at jump rope and three I HATE JUMP ROPING!!!! What should i do? I don't want a answer like just ask her out or go up to her and kiss her!! Plz help! plz plz plz plz plz plz

2006-09-23 12:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i didn't mean that, well i kind of did , but i know i am wrong
i said i have her character and i hate that....
i am very wrong, what can i do ?
i think i am very wrong and she probably won't talkt to me anymore

2006-09-23 12:55:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How does SHY/NOT SOCIAL guys act when they have a crush on someone ?

2006-09-23 12:54:59 · 12 answers · asked by Unanswered 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-23 12:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my ex when I was a sophmore, right before I turned 16, we were together for 11 years, have kids the works. I thought he was a great guy, treated me really good, didn't argue too much, always there when I needed him, everything. But then a year ago I found out he was a totally different person, he'd cheated on me ALOT, lied about where he was and when he was working, and had his friends lie for him too. It all ended when he was gonna get an apartment with another girl(while he lived with me and the kids), and I found out about her. We confronted him together and he acted like we were the crazy ones. Needless to say, he made me have a few issues with guys. Well now I have met a guy online, just emails and a couple of pictures but he seems really nice and sincere, and says he's had a girl he wanted to marry break his heart(i never told him about my loser ex), so he doesn't play games cuz he knows how it feels. Should I believe him or is this just another way guys screw with girls?

2006-09-23 12:53:53 · 13 answers · asked by momw/8 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so it is Homecoming Dance comming up. My friends and I are thinking of unique ways of asking our dates to Homecoming.

The idea I tried were that I got her schedule and in every class she took, she recieved a 2 roses from an anonymous sender. And come sixth period, she had 1 dozen roses. and that is when I visited her 6th period classroom and played a song for her.

my friends are trying to think of unique ways of asking their dates.

guys: What unique ways have you used to ask a girl to a dance?

girls: What unique ways have you been asked to a dance?


please be serious. nothing like show up at her door naked or something like that (seriously, that has been one answer I heard)

2006-09-23 12:53:53 · 6 answers · asked by アルバート みつるぎ- Albert Mitsurugi 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to make dinner for someone I really like, but I am not the most experienced cook. Any suggestions?

2006-09-23 12:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you could have yahoo as well that would be great
hope your that one
oh yeah just being friends to chat with over the net and send emails to

2006-09-23 12:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by annie 5 in Friends

What is the thing that turns most men on?

2006-09-23 12:53:23 · 4 answers · asked by lilmizzerica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was talking to my friend's bro the other day, and he sayd that he's reguarlly hit by his father, yelled at by his mother and hit by his uncle. I guess his father has been in court for drugs..., and takes his anger out on him.
Should I say something? i know its not my place, but if i dont say anything...?

2006-09-23 12:52:18 · 13 answers · asked by dOnNa 1 in Family

i have been lied to shunned by his family and treated like dirt but we have a child he wants to see him and take him to his parents house but they refuse to speak with me and never have....

2006-09-23 12:52:04 · 9 answers · asked by uplate31 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we share long distance relationship..and when i send him my pics after few months i didn't here from him!!this means that he doesn't like me anymore?or was i looking fat in it?

2006-09-23 12:51:04 · 18 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Singles & Dating

with the rest of his work buddies, am i wrong for feeling angry and dissapointed in him? what should i do about this?

2006-09-23 12:50:28 · 41 answers · asked by zndgd 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think?

2006-09-23 12:50:17 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce