I recently found that my boyfriend of 5 years is looking at porn about 4 times a week behin my back. NONE of these girls look anything like me. I get that it prolly is a fantasy thing but why then....Monday of this week I was so horny. I was literally begging him for sex I got him hard and suddenly he had to go pee. The whole time he was in the bathroom I never heard him pee but I did hear him drop the box of kleenex? seriously! Then he came out and said supposedly joking that was easy to jack off just had to hit a few times haha. When he says things like that he really means them but tries to throw me off so i don't get pissed. So I keep asking me and he keeps denying it. Now the rest of week I have begged him for sex and he just avoids me what is going on? What do I do? Does he really want me to be something different?
2006-09-23 13:03:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He completely owns you. If you're begging for sex like this, then he has achieved what every guy truly fantasizes about: sex at the drop of a hat....or Kleenex box if it were. He is teasing you to the point where he can have you anytime he wants you...and all he has had to do is whack it a few times to get to this point. Kudos to this guy if that is what his goal in life was, to devise a way to make chicks horny enough to beg. Of course, there is another viable option...
...HE'S CHEATING ON YOU! The porn really has nothing to do with it, really, if this is what's going on. He's gettin his elsewhere, and doesn't really want/need to bone you anymore. What's with the porn then? All guys love porn. Single, married, pimping, cheating, all types of guys love all types of porn.
Hey, if you're still alive, not in jail, and horny, i know about 5 billion guys that are looking for a chick ready to rock. Odds are they will like porn, but you gotta pick your battles sweetheart.
P.S. Get a vibrator. You'll complain less.
2006-09-23 13:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rich_Nice raped my mom 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well after five yrs sometimes people get comfortable in relashonships and feel that they don't have to do those special things that they did when they were dating, I think that you should do something different when he least expects it like instead of begginf for sex make him want it wear something sexy, have a glass of wine for him, dance for him, do things that will make him desire you and then maybe he won't have to go looking at the porn or finishing in the bathroom. Porn is all about the fantasy create that fantasy in your bedroom...Good luck!
2006-09-23 20:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by YD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he looks at porno more than 4 times a week! He isn't turned on becuase he gets off to porn all the time. He probobally did it a few hours before the incident happened.
If he can't get stimulated enough when you BEG him for sex, then there is a problem. Work this out with him.
If you can't work it out, and get the sex you need,
I would reccomend you see a different guy. Most responsible boyfriends would be pleased to pleasure their partner.
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2006-09-23 20:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~~0o0~~ 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
well I am sorry to say that I think you sould break- up. If after only five years of dating he looses interest than he is not the future husband that you seem to want. I would make a clean break and find someone that has the same sexual appitite. I like to have sex about twice a day and I was married for 12 years so trust me there is men that can keep up
2006-09-23 20:13:58 · answer #4 · answered by weldergooroo 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to be something or someone you're not...then he doesn't love you the way you deserve. Its best to find out now before you're married and have children. How would he feel if YOU were looking at male porn sites??? It's disrespectful but a lot of guys do it then wonder why women feel less than valued
2006-09-23 20:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doesn't mean, he does not love you. He probably a addict to porno, 4 a week. He gets more pleasure jacking off. Try something different, only if u really want to. There nothing wrong with u, the problem is Him
2006-09-23 20:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by artman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be a number of thing's. For one he might be afraid of commitment, or being a father, or any number of thing's or maybe you pis*ed him off early in the week. You know these divorce law's we have on the book's have got alot of men on the defence and are not going to get involved, I know Iam paying and don't intend to ever do it again untill thing's change!
2006-09-23 20:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having more bad times than good times, IT'S OVER!! Don't be scared you won't find somone else, you will.
You wouldn't ask this if you were happy. You need to ask him that question.
Don't be scared to break up. There are too many people not to find another one. For reals.
2006-09-23 20:08:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is more into porn than you, it's time to move on. You shouldn't be begging him for sex. That is not a sign of a healthy relationship.
2006-09-23 20:08:03 · answer #9 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off...it's just porn...no big deal. Second dudes love getting b l o w j o b s while 'reading' a good porn,you need to start being more creative! Ask him 'what he's reading' get into enjoy it.
And ya maybe you do need to spice yourself up a bit...change your hair color wear a diffrent shade of lipstick...the little things go along way...
2006-09-23 20:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋