Hey anyone remember me. ? The idiot who fell in love with the roomate. After one year of spending all our time together then he meets a girl over nite on a camping trip and poof I am history. It has been one month. He call'd me last week says he had a miss'd message on his phone and wanted to know if I had call'd no i had not tried. We talked a short while her name was never mentioned. I told him I would be there to get my things in about a week he said not to worry I had plenty of time and that he would let me know. My friend saw him the other day she ask him why he never came home. He told her why bother that I wasn't there. If thats so then why his he still Always with this other girl? I have not heard from him for three days. I know I need to go on I will not call him. It hurts I miss him alot. To beleive I am in my forties acting like a teenager. Am I just crazy? I keep myself busy. I have known this man for five years he was my best friend. Any advice please.
2006-09-23 13:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by pookiepoo11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
forget him he aint worth the pain
if he wanted you he wouldnt have done it in the first place a so put some glad rags on and some make up call the girls up and go for a night on the town
2006-09-23 13:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by full_strokes_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A broken heart hurts, no matter what age you are. You know that this relationship was not good and healthy for you, and yet it is still not easy to walk away. That's because you still love him. Well, bad news you will always love him, but that does not mean that you should be in a lifetime relationship with him. All the details about the breakup and what takes place during this period are not important. What is important is that you realize that he is not the man for you, and that you gather up your self-respect and self-confidence and move on. Take care of you, and the hurt will ease with time...You both deserve to be happy, the sooner you put this relationship behind you the sooner you can look forward to a brighter future and possibly share you time with a man who is right for you.
2006-09-23 20:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI,
u are not crazy! I might not be as old as u but I can assure u that I can feel that pain u are going through CZ same thing happened to me 3 months ago and is still happening today. I can't blame myself for feeling the way I'm feeling CZ I know I really cared about this person and I have only know him for a year and 3 months so you pain is understandable. Just keep yourself biz, go out with friends and hop fully u might meet Simone that would appreciate u for u and know what he would b w/o if he does not have u in his life. Take care and don't let any man bring u down for too long.
2006-09-23 20:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel and you are just going to have to let it hurt and find you some good friends and stay busy and just wait the man of your dreams is just around the corner and also no contact with him it will only open the same feels you have for him and you will never heal that way. Take care.
2006-09-23 20:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it easy and go about your life don't waste any time do what you have to do, there are plenty of men out there and one of them is for you,he will show up in your life when you least expect it.think with your heart not your brain,the brain is not reliable when it comes to inner emotions your heart never lies.if the two of you were meant to be together then it will be.i guess you could call it a test .as the old saying goes absents make the heart grow fonder
2006-09-23 20:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have things at his place you should get them so you don't have to contact him anymore. It's time to move on. If he really liked you, he wouldn't have hooked up with this girl from the camping trip.
2006-09-23 20:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts because you keep thinking about him. try to do something to get your mind off of him. read a book go for a walk orcall himto get some things off your chess in a nice and calm way. that might help
2006-09-23 20:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by burtonstanley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to talk to each other. Yes it hunts now ,but time heals all things.
2006-09-23 20:13:21 · answer #8 · answered by bynoe_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go on with your life and find another man. when you find another man your old man will be history as you were to him.
2006-09-23 20:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by lexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...not crazy, just different. if he was my friend i wouldn't have dated him. for that reason, because probably you'd break-up w/ him or vise versa so one of you would be bound to get hurt so it's kindda your fault...i'm not trying to be rude but it is your fault
2006-09-23 20:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by HalieeBoBaliee. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋